always tired and stressed out???

Question

I am 15 weeks, and I always seem to be tired, I am taking my prenatal vitamins, but I could sleep all day (if i didn't have my son and husband to bug me!!) I am getting a little better, I was so tired in my first trimester, but i still don't feel like i have any energy. I also get mad so easy, its not even that i get mad, i am just in a bad mood for no reason, i catch myself, and try to reason things out, but most of the time i do it and don't mean to. It always seems to be toward my husband too, who does everything since he is out of work for an injury. I know its probably cuz of hormones, but is there anyway to help it? I hate being in a bad mood all the time. The last 3 weeks I have also been so stressed out. I am having problems with my landlords changing there minds about kicking us out every time we talk to them, and we know that they legally can't just kick us out and they have to go through a process, but it still worries me because we don’t know when they are actually goin to go through with what they say. I have started getting a massage once a week, and talking to my sister in law, that seems to really help, but how bad can it get for my pregnancy if I am too stressed out? I have been having trouble eating, I was sick during my 3rd and 4th month with my son too, so its nothing new, but I am never hungry and when I do eat I throw it up. What advice do you have for me, I have an appointment to see my dr, and I am goin to tell her and see what she has to say, but I want to get some advice from someone who has gone through this. Thank you

honestly the only way to get rid of the stress from my landlords is to just move out, and cut all contact with them. I know this will cut a lot of the stress out of my life, but thats a big choice we also have to make. and i just want to thank those of you that are commenting!!

Answer 1

You take it out on your husband because you know he'll stay by your side regardless. Just let him know when you can that you don't mean the things you say and you are hormonal (I did and my hubby always puts up with me). It took me until about 16 weeks to finally start feeling better and not feeling so tired all the time. I'm 20 weeks now and feeling much better. Good luck!

Answer 2

I found that my Bi***iness was directly related to resentment. I was really upset because I didn't think my husband was being supportive enough. After we had a long talk I felt better. This may not be the case for you because you sound just super overwhelmed. The weekly massages are going to help. Also, try to get a book/CD on meditations for pregnancy...I had one and listened to the CD every night while I went to sleep. Helped clear my head so I could sleep better. Make sure your doc knows because a lot of stress can lead to toxemia...or worse. If you are a bottler you can raise your blood pressure...et. Sorry I couldn't be more help. Good Luck!

Answer 3

you have SO much going on!!!
Stress is NOT good for the baby.. or YOU!! can You delegate any responsibilities or worries, especially about the apartment?

I was a total B*tch during my first pregnancy the first few months.. and honestly had no time or patience for anyone else, it got better after a while.. I didn't have nausea so much as horrid heartburn..
I think once your stress level goes down, your patience & tolerance will go up.. that is what I am hoping for you..

Answer 4

i do sleep all day execpt when i am out walking... I heard that makes labor easy