My friends will voice their opinion sometimes without the intention to hurt anyone. Well, the other night they called me a liar, directly, flat out called me "a liar". When i asked them what i lied about they could only think of one thing but it was the truth. They know though that i am the one they can trust with any secret, I am the best friend of the entire group. I have never lied to them. I don't even lie at all about anything. It hurts that they accused me of this, because i strive so hard to be honest and trustworty. Should I say something to them? What should I do?
2007-12-03 17:45:16 · 5 answers · asked by =)) 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Tell them how you felt about them calling you a liar.
If they respond to you in a negative way, then it's time for you to get new friends.
It sounds like they're conspiring against you anyway. They've already called you a liar. What's next?
You might not want to stick around to find out.
2007-12-03 22:28:38 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
dear cyfmcd,,
sometimes when ur friends don't have anything on u and they want to tees u the come up with things and see the reflect on u is it really pushed ur buttons they'll keep naming u that if that says something it says :: sister ur fully perfect and they don't have what to say except spreading lies about u and hope that they can see u mad :D so f u know that ur not a liar don't b so angry about it at like (( huh i know myself more than u and am not any way near a liar and am good and i know that they know that am good and f i left the group I'll be missed and they are saying this just to make me angry will am not am gonna act cool and laugh and if some one called u a liar till them will am not a liar but i know whats a lie and that's a lie and u know whats the truth (and ur smiling not in an angry way-self steam girl-) the truth is that ur >>> and give him a real thing n him/her that way they'll know that ur strong and that u 2 have a mouth 2 defend ur self don't be weak whatever happens and don't lose ur confidence ur a good girl and everyone knows that right? :) (F)
2007-12-04 02:02:16 · answer #2 · answered by Salty 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes you should definitely say something to them. Ask them why they accused you of being a liar. Ask them if you have in any way been deceitful to them...if you've ever betrayed them. If YOU know the answers to these questions are no then turn things around on them...THEY'RE the liars and they know it. This all sounds really stupid what you're friends are doing, I'm sorry I just have to say that. Their actions seem childish...tell them to talk to you when they stop being idiots.
2007-12-04 01:50:26 · answer #3 · answered by sickofitall 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Kids call each other names without thinking, all of the time... they should apologize, but don't hold your breath...
I'm sorry you are hurt and upset over this, but the fact is YOU know you are not a liar, and that is what is important.
take care.
2007-12-04 01:48:14 · answer #4 · answered by letterstoheather 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
da importnt thing is dat u knw da truth dat u r not a liar. tlk 2 them about it. try n find out wat u hav been accused of. B strong n tlk.
2007-12-04 02:18:25 · answer #5 · answered by rex 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋