ok so theres this guy named bob (fake name) and i really like him... hes 16 and imm 13 but hes the most respectful guy ever.
ok so heres the story...
my best freind sue (fake name) is dating bob shes also 13 and like i said bob is 16. one day after school we were all hanging out and tammy (fake name) asked bob when he was going to kiss sue. bob said idc when ever ue wants too.
tammy said come on why dont u kiss him? and sue said not right now!!! tammy said why are u prude???? bob reasponded with "hey dont tease her.. idc if shes prude!!
anyways long story short hes really respectful and even though hes 16 hes not the kind of guy who wants to get down ur pants.
so i really like him but hes dating my best freind!!!!!!
i dont want to hurt sue
what should i do
plz helpful answers!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2007-12-03 17:30:31 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
he's cool,
um.. I'd tell him if I were you.
your friend beat you too him, but yeh there's nothing wrong with telling him how you feel.
2007-12-03 17:37:33 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 4⤋
You are attracted to him because he seems like such a wonderful guy. However, if he is really such a wonderful person, he wouldn't be interested in hurting his girlfriend.
You also deserve to be in a respectful relationship of your own. There are plently of guys out there that you are going to be mad about. Don't sell yourself short.
If you feel that you can't stop your feelings for him, then the best advise that I can give it that you must distance yourself from their relationship. Spend time with your friend only ( without him).
Rememer your friend and her feelings. If you were dating someone you really liked, you wouldn't want your best friend to ruin the relationship.
2007-12-03 19:19:50 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well honey thats a hard one.One thing i know is that there are lots of ideal boys out there Bob is not the only one.So let Sue have him cause she is your friend.
2007-12-05 20:11:29 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ALL guys want to get into your pants.. especially at 16.. so don't kid yourself.
Meanwhile, if you like him, well that's good.. next year he's going to be too old for any of you, considering he will be considered at the age of consent, and he won't be able to legally "date" you... so maybe move on.
And, while you're doing so, be happy he has walked through you life... sometimes being friends is more satisfying anyway.
2007-12-03 18:50:40 · answer #4 · answered by letterstoheather 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
as the guys say bros before hos and sue probaly didnt kiss him because she did not want to get cotties lol 13
2007-12-04 02:24:35 · answer #5 · answered by Andrew P 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
An excellent porn movie... A quiet room... A good door lock... A cozy bed... A bottle of good quality hand cream... Some good quality tissue papers... A good imagination...
2016-05-28 02:40:04 · answer #6 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should just leave it alone, if your best friend is dating him, I wouldnt really reccomend it. I think that you should be happy for your friend. There are lots of guys out there, maybe you should talk to some other guys?
2007-12-04 03:58:29 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You better wait for the time when they will break up. Anyways you still have a chance. Time will come just wait.
2007-12-03 18:51:42 · answer #8 · answered by Randol Mendoza 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
um i personally would ignore my feelings and not tell my friend that i like the person and try to avoid how i feel...my freinds mean more to me than a guy
and yea i agree most guys are horn balls i wouldnt fall for it...
2007-12-03 18:06:28 · answer #9 · answered by dizzi 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
ask bob if he likes you
2007-12-04 12:01:47 · answer #10 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Boys come and boys go. Friends last longer.
2007-12-03 17:36:42 · answer #11 · answered by Hiro a Hero? 5 · 3⤊ 1⤋