My boyfriend and i started having sex. Well i realllly want to be safe about it and am freaking out now. We used a condom but it was the first time for both of us so yeah we're a bit inexperienced. Anyway, the condom kept rolling back down his shaft and he would have to keep reaching down to pull the condom back up.
Also, i know you can get pregnant from precum.. so i keep worrying the condom is going to get precum on it when he puts it on and that i'm going to get pregnant from that.
I know i sound so dumb, but these are serious questions!!
2007-12-03 16:46:46 · 12 answers · asked by starryeyed 5 in Health ➔ Women's Health
ps- i am on the pill but only started 2 weeks ago so i am trying to be careful of what could happen
2007-12-03 17:02:39 · update #1
it was good u used a condom - i wish i
would have & will now in the future (if there is another time). anyway,
try not to worry, i'm sure you're fine & the condom did it's job. if
you realized you're not ready to have sex, then tell him & he should
respect that & not try to pressure you or make advances anymore, bc when
he does it makes it harder for you to say no which is about where i
was. i knew i wanted to wait til i was married, but i trusted him & then
after we got engaged, i thought it was ok bc he was comitted to me &
i'd atleast have him with me if anything did happen, well, i was WRONG &
i regret it. he came to visit me, slept with me a few times that week
& then broke things off & now i'm stuck here waiting for my period to
come, panicking - i couldn't tell my family. i have finals starting
this friday & i certainly can't be goign thru morning sickness while
taking finals. & i haven't talked to him since he left here. i'm so
hoping for my period. good luck
2007-12-04 04:38:02 · answer #1 · answered by confused 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The most likely reason the condom kept rolling down on him is because it is to big. Condoms are made in different lengths and widths, and different manufacturers produce varying sizes and it will just take some experimenting to get it right. And being that you are both new at this, it seems silly but make sure you put the condom on the correct way and not backwards. If it is backwards it might tend to roll down.
With the precum, usually any that he will get on the condom will be on the inside of the condom and you shouldn't worry to terribly much about that. That being said though, you can never be to careful. I would suggest getting on birth control as well. Use both methods of protection. To some, this may seem like an awful lot, but if you are that concerned with getting pregnant, then you are going to be to worried to get any enjoyment from sex.
2007-12-04 00:55:07 · answer #2 · answered by brazenangel3 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The condoms are manufactured to fit all men shaft's, but if it is roll back from your boy friend's shaft, that means his shaft is not tightened with condom, may be his shaft is so thin or he doesn't have maximum erect to hold the condom tightly. If you both are using the condom properly, and the way how it suppose to, then don't worry about getting pregnant by precum or what ever....how the precum enter in to your vagina while he covers his end?
2007-12-04 00:57:22 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If the condom is applied correctly the precum should be inside of the condom.
A penis ring can also be applied to keep the condom from rolling down the shaft of the penis.
2007-12-04 00:53:20 · answer #4 · answered by Zappy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your not dumb... Its natural to ask these questions. Your boyfriend will have to work at keeping the condom on, so thats normal. And as long as the condom is on the WHOLE time you should be alright and not have to worry about precum. Maybe try a spermicide..
Spermicide is a substance that kills sperm, inserted vaginally prior to intercourse to prevent pregnancy. As a contraceptive, spermicide may be used alone.
2007-12-04 00:52:04 · answer #5 · answered by Mooka 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like his condom was a little too wide for him, different brabds are available that fit different sized and shaped men. It is poossible for the man to hold the condom in place while making love.
One slimmer brand of condom is called Kimono, I think they are made for the Japanese market but I have saw then in America.
2007-12-04 01:41:30 · answer #6 · answered by freebird 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
most of the condoms now days have a special ingredient its something 95 like e95 or some **** in laymans term its spermkiller or spermicide. it kills most "***". just everytime you buy condoms get spermicidal condoms and you shouldnt have to worry unless it breaks and he cums in you
2007-12-04 00:51:03 · answer #7 · answered by billy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd like you to take a far safer and much more effective approach to sex, wait till you get married, unplanned pregnancies can bring educational as well career opportunities to a screeching halt. it's in your best interest not to be pressured in to a position of responsibility of that size until you are emotionally and financially ready.
2007-12-04 01:15:39 · answer #8 · answered by anthony b 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
depends on how far it came off...if it rolled completely off, then there's still a chance you could be pregnant.
Tell him to not buy Magnum's...or maybe it's just too small for a condom.
2007-12-04 00:53:18 · answer #9 · answered by Sgt. Pepper 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
girl...if you want to be really safe...use a condom and take a birth control pill...still if you got pregnant, maybe you really were destined to be a mother....just want to make u smile...
check with your OB-GYN and ask for a birth control prescription...
2007-12-04 00:51:09 · answer #10 · answered by justME 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋