Find out what he's interested in, even if it bores you to tears. Then get him something that relates to his interest. That will tell him that you get who he is, and that you accept him for who he is. You don't have to pretend to be interested in what he likes, but it shows that you are interested in him, and that you've been paying attention to him.
Also, don't go out of your way to make him wrong, even if he is wrong; just treat it as just his point of view, or as an "insight". Virgos hate being made wrong, especially after so thoroughly analyzing a situation. You don't have to agree with him, just cheerfully agree to disagree.
Guys like to feel accepted for who they are, and especially for who they are not. Feeling appreciated for our contributions is very important for us to feel loved; plus it inspires us to contribute more if we get a positive reaction. Pay attention to what his strengths are, and compliment him on those.
If he gets you something, thank him. Even if he totally screws up, and gets you something you don't even like. Make sure to introduce to him specific things you do like. A Virgo will tend to analyze the data, and attempt to get you something related to what you showed him. Feeling that his gifts to you are accepted will make him feel accepted, and to a guy, that feels like love.
2007-12-03 22:01:59
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answered by obsidian_black76 2
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Make him laugh, make him feel that his jokes are somewhat funny, touch him while you talk to him. For instance, if he says something, you happen to agree with, then hold his arm and reply, "I know, right, Hon."
Or something like that.
When in doubt though, play on their sexual desires. Most Virgin men (Yeah, Right!) are very sensual and would love if you got in touch with your "Head game" if you know what I mean!
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Go all the way, Girl! But only if He happens to be worth that much!!
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2007-12-04 05:56:05
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answered by Anonymous
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What's wrong with speaking the words? Say them, then follow with loving actions. Find out what he loves and give it to him - a favorite meal, time alone, whatever. But saying, "I love you," is important, too. It doesn't matter what his sign is, that's a good rule to follow with anyone.
2007-12-04 00:27:45
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answered by TIna 4
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I'm a Virgo.. just keep hugging, touching, smiling and make me feel like there nothing to worried about... alway by side me close beside me, my girlfriend never leave me alone... that how i got it.
2007-12-04 02:15:57
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answered by Anonymous
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Welcome his criticism! They love to analyze, organize, and improve on everything. Ask him what he thinks about things, and truly take his advice to heart. If there's one thing a Virgo likes, it's to feel useful. So just appreciate every little helpful comment he tries to give you and he'll surely feel very loved.
2007-12-04 00:39:18
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answered by JAS 6
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Well, in my case a woman who kind of mothers me & looks after me makes me feel loved.
2007-12-04 00:30:03
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answered by the Boss 7
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Buy him a book like those all the things that make you special and lovable. They like to read!
2007-12-04 04:12:21
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answered by Anonymous
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roll him a nice big phatty :)
2007-12-04 02:10:46
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answered by stingray 3
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