What really attracts you to other people besides?

Question

besides the obvious-looks?

Answer 1

Confidence,compassion, and humor.

Answer 2

It's so difficult to put into words, but it's usually a feeling I get... chemisty, is it? Yes, chemistry, and that is usually the result of good rapport and humor. I know everyone says that sense of humor is important and all that, and seriously it is. I have been on dates with guys who are serious and dull that I can hardly stand it. I like to have fun and be silly, so a guy that can appreciate that and go with it attracts me greatly.

Answer 3

Their warmth, sincerity, kindness, compassion, humour, intellect, integrity, confidence, grooming, behaviour, manners, speech ... and probably many more things which I recognise on a more subconscious level. Attraction is a strange phenomenon ... I know I've been attracted to people who don't exhibit even HALF of those qualities cited above ... but whether I've then progressed to really LIKING them is another matter!

Answer 4

I like people with a sense of humor who also consider other people's feelings. I like someone who isn't afraid to voice their opinions but they do so in a way that doesn't hurt others and their opinions are based on facts. In other words they are intelligent, hard working, compassionate, and have a great sense of humor. I like for people to make me laugh and go along with my silliness and sense of humor. Life it too short to be so serious and not have lots of laughs. Yes, I also forgot that I like people who are open minded and are not always stubborn and unable to change their minds on things.

Answer 5

The smiley face of someone I don't know'.will attract me to give her a smile too!What attracts me to other people are if they say hi & hello if you happen to walk towards them & they don't avoid you at all.Those who always frown & have a sourgrapes face is a bit too weary for me to greet them because if you do they might tick you off & get embarrassed.Not all people in the world are friendly to everyone otherwise there'll be no wars among countries.You couldn't please everyone even if you want too.What would you do if someone just insult you when you are very nice to them?? They reckon if they throw stone at you,give them bread instead(a saying goes)

Answer 6

Besides looks.....hmmmmmm I would say sense of humor, intelligence, generosity and I think the biggie is STABILITY. I mean emotional stability. I can't stand people who go from one fiasco to another and never realize they cause the fiasco.

Answer 7

I would say personality and humor makes me attracted to people as well.
Also, a little bit of flattery goes a long way with me.

Answer 8

Open-mindedness, wit, my kind of sense of humour, intelligence and compassion.

He has to resemble Clive Owen or Johnny Depp as well.
;)

Answer 9

Sense of humor, their teeth (I like nice straight teeth). Their eyes (do they make eye contact when they talk to you). Their treatment of others and last but not least is how much they make in a year. LOL.

Answer 10

If you look in someones eyes it tells so much about that person.There is a real attraction or nothing there.If there is nothing there its beacause there thinking about someone else.All the best.

Answer 11

personality...... their life backround. I'm not one to judge a book by its cover... but if the person doesn't an hasn't have had their head on straight... it's a no go. You can be the most amazing gorgeous guy I have ever met... but if you don't have it right.... or at least trying.... Not even going to get myself involved... ya dig? :)