part two...i just found out that my best friend is dating another guy........?

Question

i understand what you all have said. but why did he tell his other bestfriend and not me. and if it is because i dont agree with it then why do they talk in code in front of my face. i kinda knew that this is what the secret was but i wasnt positive. yes i know it was a guy. the text was from a person with a guys name. its just irritating. and every since this started we have spent less time together and have been somewhat falling apart. we only get together to do homework now. i dont know how to act around him now that i know. he is going to be at my house in less than 2 hours and i dont know what to say to him. he knows i will accept him for it. we have been friends for so long. he should know that. how do i act in front of him.

Answer 1

Well in my case I also offended a friend when she found out she wasn't the first to know. I explained to her that it wasn't that I liked my other friend more, it was the opposite. I care so much about what she thought that I was horrified by the thought of losing her as a friend, so I had to work my way up to telling her. I love her more than anyone in the world and that is what made it hard to tell her, i didnt want her to treat me different. That is just my experience, hope it helps.

Answer 2

Also, never let your friends hide stuff from you. Its your right, to brow-beat them (with LOVE! and HEART-FELT insults!!!!) when they neglect you. I do it all the time, people respect the crap out of me, like then I'd said,"Buddy! How long have I known you?" pause for response "Thats right! SLAP (on the hand or forhead, depends how pissed I'm) Now don't forget that buddy!" "Now whats going on with so and so, and if you dare deny the truth to be again!!" (Raise hand to remind how good of a friend I'm) And end with a hug or something, depends on the friend, I mostly hang out with guys, so usually a friendly punch in the stomach gets them away from thinking I'm gay, and life goes on. But the points to be honest, don't let people be weak, your their as their friends to help strength them, so don't cut them slack. Because the frist answeror was right, your reaction thou could of been better for the both of you. Fight for love, or settle for a bsy relationship, no offense, it doesn't have to be hard, if your honest....