2007-12-03 14:15:36 · 11 answers · asked by melissa s 2 in Health ➔ Men's Health
Its not for everyone even if properly lubed ect.
Different strokes for different folks.
If you've already tried it & don't like it.
Tell him no I will not let you do that to me.
If you keep bugging me about it I will find a real man who genuinely loves & respects me for who I am.
2007-12-03 15:53:31 · answer #1 · answered by Digital One 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't let him force you into something you are not sure of. My wife and I have done it on occasion, but she must be in the mood and I do not force the issue. If it is done correctly with lots of time and lube, it has been very pleasurable for us both.
2007-12-03 23:57:22 · answer #2 · answered by Ben F 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't say if you have tried it yet. If you haven't and you want to then you should be on top and in control of insertion so that you aren't hurt.(Think "cowgirl") Engage in lengthy foreplay. Only attempt it when you are very aroused. Slowly work it into your well lubricated anus and you may find this a very stimulating act. There are far more nerve endings here than in your vagina.
2007-12-04 18:35:35 · answer #3 · answered by Hot n Tired 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Most women do NOT like this kind of sex; it IS generally painful. If he cares about you, he won't pressure you to do ANYTHING sexual that you don't want to do. If he keeps nagging at you, that's a sign that he's selfish and doesn't care about you, so you should dump him if he keeps going on about it. NO is NO, and if he doesn't get that, you don't want to be with him.
2007-12-03 22:33:22 · answer #4 · answered by Maple 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you don't want to have anal sex then DON'T. Your BF is allowed to want what he likes but that doesn't mean he is going to get it.
I like anal sex, but it has to be done when I want it and when I am in the mood for it.
2007-12-03 22:57:50 · answer #5 · answered by Poppet 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
explain it to him that you don't want anal sex. I know how you feel, except my guy kept asking to have vaginal sex, at the age of 16/17 too! If he truely likes you and respects you, he will listen and understand.
2007-12-04 00:06:15 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Its going to fell good that's y so many people do it but don't do it unless you fell like there is a good relationship going in between you and him. Make sure he is special to you and good enof to go that fair with you.
2007-12-04 11:49:42 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're not comfortable trying don't do it, but some women really enjoy it. If he doesn't know what he's doing he could really hurt you.
2007-12-03 22:19:22 · answer #8 · answered by bgmcfn 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get a toy and tell him, "You first!"
2007-12-03 23:16:44 · answer #9 · answered by Dippy 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
use your mature judgment, do what you want.
2007-12-04 00:08:38 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋