how to tell someone that hangs around you that you dont like them and want them to leave?

Question

there is this guy at schoo who is so anoyting he follows us arount and no on likes him he dosnt talk or say anything and everyone thinks hes here so he can get a girlfriend or get action. hes bubleway and dont get me wrong im a christian and i dont disctiminate but i just find their beliefs strange. the kid only talks about how he could beat people up and how hes done illegal things i want to tell him to leave without hurting him or starting something and also hes starting to "touch" some of my lady friends and they dont like it. if he wont leave what should i do

Answer 1

sit him down and tell him "sorry dut its a lil weird u followin us around like this. u dont say anything and we dont like the way u want to beat people up." just tell him how u really feel

Answer 2

If you really don't want him around find a polite way to tell him. Something like "Hey, I'm sorry but I would like to talk to my friends about something personal and I would appreciate it if you gave us some space. Thanks"
But, looking at it from his point of view, maybe he doesn't have any friends? Maybe he has a hard time talking and relating to others. Maybe you could pull him aside and talk to him one on one. That way he won't feel intimidated or humiliated in front of a group of people.
As for him talking about beating up people or doing illegal things, it is probably for attention. If he doesn't have friends or isn't "cool" maybe he feels the need to say he does certain things to draw attention to him.
And for him touching your female friends, if he does it, the girl needs to immediately tell him to stop she doesn't want him to do so and if he continues she will tell a teacher principle and police.

Answer 3

jus try an ignore him for a while an if he still doesnt go away then youll have to get someone try the softest person outta the gang or some one that doesnt even hang around with you to tell him that yous dont like him then maybe hell stop an not get his pride hurt because it will have been him stopped hanging about wth yous an not yous telling him too!! xxx

Answer 4

Oh, he sounds as though he has mental health issues. Your lady friends must tell him calmly but firmly that no one is allowed to touch them without their permission, and they are not comfortable with that. I don't understand what you are talking about with "bubleway", but whatever he is doing it has nothing to do with religion or culture. I would not advise insulting him or being mean, but if he is saying things that are making you uncomfortable (which his convo sounds like), then tell him you do not mean to be rude, but that you are extremely uncomfortable hearing the things that he is telling you and you will not listen anymore. Say it firmly but kindly; then go someplace else.

Answer 5

personally i would just confront him and let him know hes a creeper and nobody likes him hanging around and you would appreciate it if he would just tame it down a bit and just back off for a little while. but thats just me, maybe get someone else to do it if your not good with confrontation.