2007-12-03 11:44:14 · 15 answers · asked by ♥BEX♥ 7 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
Waste of time bex!
It will not get you anywhere hun
just enjoy what you have
xx
2007-12-04 07:26:11 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
I was told by a very wise man "There is no such thing as hindsight and if you had the time over again you would make same mistakes as no hindsight"
So no my life is built on possitive ok messed up here will not do it next time learn from mistakes and move on is the best way I find.
I admit my faults and I am not perfect bex you cant say if only why and maybe as it has gone to late so build from it and learn from it.
2007-12-03 21:18:05 · answer #2 · answered by momof3 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Well Bex, there is a lot of them,older and wiser- but-too late to change what is done. l did The Best l Knew How- at The Time. Love Jo xx
2007-12-03 12:01:33 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
I think everyone to a degree has asked the question "what if?...... if only..." I certainly have.
An old friend of mine once told me..
"you can't go back so why dwell on it?"
"People don't upset you, you upset yourself"
Those two sayings are almost like a mantra to me now and I have to say I'm far happier now that I've stopped beating myself about the head over a decision I made 15yrs ago!
2007-12-03 20:26:56 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
no way you have dreams, plans, hopes, that you put in to action because once you do that its not if buts and maybe's every year on new years eve i plan what i am going to do for the year coming i do get 95% of it done over the year you have too work for what you want or it is only if's why's and maybe's
2007-12-03 17:48:01 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Yes I'm afraid it is !! The choices I have made along the way have basically shaped my life and certain other things are out of my control, but I always wonder !!
2007-12-04 08:43:36 · answer #6 · answered by kirst is back!! 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No Bex because that is a negative way of thinking and building your life on. If there is something you can change, then change it, if there isn't then accept that it is not meant to be. xxx
2007-12-03 20:15:52 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
My life is built upon "Why?"s and "Why not?"s
I read alot of philosophy so... it sorta is required to ask questions.
2007-12-03 11:49:00 · answer #8 · answered by Atomic New Theory 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
no. the future dictates. it doesn't matter where you start...it's where you're heading. and knowing what to do when you get there.
if only and why or maybe will get you nowhere.
but there is good to see all that...coz sometimes history repeats and then you'll know what to do.
2007-12-03 22:06:24 · answer #9 · answered by royaliscross 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Oh no - I try not to think like that. Remember Mrs Doyle in Father Ted ?
'You will,you will, you will' -
2007-12-03 12:04:24 · answer #10 · answered by nanny chris w 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋