when they pretend to like you , but deep down you know they talk about you behind your back ?
2007-12-03 11:00:19 · 26 answers · asked by ♥BEX♥ 7 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
sorry its a work colleague i have no choice but to see them thanx anyway xx
2007-12-03 11:19:55 · update #1
This probably won't be the best advice you will get Bex but because of the type of person I am I would confront them!
My life is too short to spend time having to deal with people like that, so I would ask them what their problem is? Hopefully I'd be able to resolve it but if not well who really cares?
My philosophy is I have some truly great friends what do I care if some mean spirited, lonely bullies have nothing better to do with their time than talk about me.
That's what they are Bex bullies or you can take the same attitude as me and say to yourself,
"My god they must be so jealous of my wit, my obvious happiness that they feel the need to talk about me"
Or the old chestnut,
If they are talking about me they are leaving someone else alone.
2007-12-03 20:24:11 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 10⤊ 0⤋
Two Faced Friends
2016-10-04 00:54:45 · answer #2 · answered by arguelles 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well the way I deal with two faced people is I simply avoid them.If they can't be themselves and not stab you in the back, then they are not worth your time. For instance, I remember when I was best friends with this girl during 7th grade, and I thought she was my true friend. However, it turns out that she was talking behind my back saying how she didn't want to be friends with me, and it made me realize how much of a two faced backstabber she was. Even Though ironically, she didn't tell me to my face and still acted as like she was my best friend until we graduated from 8th grade 4 years ago, which made her even more of a two faced little backstabber.
So, based on that situation, I just ignore them with a glare-no matter how "nice" they act. Because as a result of hearing the girl who I thought was my best friend back then, it truly hurt me and left a slight impact. However, despite of getting hurt from that situation, it has made me more wiser of what to do when I encounter two faced people.
2007-12-03 11:21:03 · answer #3 · answered by Taja B 4 · 7⤊ 0⤋
I chose not to associate my self with those type of people.
I always give people the benefit of the doubt when i meet them, but if i find out they are talking behind my back, that is my cue to end the friendship. Either that or if i have to be around them, like in a work environment, i just make sure, that i have the least amount of interaction with them. I don't think that i should waste any of my energy dealing with these types of people.
2007-12-03 11:05:35 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 9⤊ 0⤋
its very hard i know where your coming from, you meet all kinds of people in your life, and some make the best friends ever, beyond your dreams, then there is the ones you have to talk to just to get through the day, look at it this way if you was crossing the road, you let cars pass some you let go, and some you stand out in the road, the ones that pass are the ones you don't need in your life, the ones you stop are the ones that become friends we all have to do it whether we like it or not.
2007-12-03 18:42:52 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 0⤋
Under those circumstances, if you are sure that what you state is a fact, you should not be associating which such people. Why are putting yourself in this position, when you don't need to be there.
Get out of their way, leave them in the past. Not only are they hurting you by being "two faced" but you are not doing yourself any good by associating with them.
Do yourself a favor and cut them out of your life.
2007-12-03 11:14:29 · answer #6 · answered by Maureen S 7 · 3⤊ 1⤋
I'm with Gartom on this one bex, and 2 faced people are one of my absolute pet hates especially when it turns out to be a person you thought you could trust and thought was a mate.
2007-12-03 22:28:51 · answer #7 · answered by ♥ Beaver Diva Sue ♥ 7 · 4⤊ 0⤋
I don't need "two faced" people in my life. I have eliminated some family members who are not mentally healthy. I have a daughter to think about, so that was my solution.
2007-12-03 11:27:06 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 5⤊ 0⤋
They act like this because it is a stupid game to them just hold your head up high and be as nice and as sarcsic as you can they hate that it is getting to you that they thrive off. Take away your hurst anger and discust what do they have knothing but confusion.
Think if she is doing this to you one how many more is she doing it to and to be honest do others really like her or playing to the bully so they do not become next target.
Good luck Bex kick some bum ignore the silly woman hurst like hell that does.
2007-12-03 21:09:50 · answer #9 · answered by momof3 7 · 4⤊ 0⤋
Stay away from them because they are back stabbers who are jealous. I had a very annoying neighbor like this once who was a total idiot. And tried to get everybody to hate me because actually everybody likes me. The only other people it worked on were other jealous losers
So be glad to know what kind of people they are and get out your scissors and cut them out of your life
2016-01-17 13:03:28 · answer #10 · answered by smartie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋