My wife and I are having some trouble. I don't even really fully understand what it's about but she is upset and boarders day to day on wheather or not she wants a divorce. I don't want to leave my home and my children,( my wife either for that matter). If she decided that was that I know the court would eventually give her the house and she would get the kids more than me I know too.
Question is how long can I hold out if I don't want to go and what can I do to prolong being under the same roof as my children?
2007-12-03 09:46:21 · 7 answers · asked by troubled 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Hell no, consult a family law atourney cover your *** now, do not let her throw you out of your home and seperate you from your kids. Maybe once she relizes you are not just gonna roll over and take, it she'll change her mind. make sure you tell the lawyer you want the kids and the house she is the one that wants the divorce , not you, she should go emty handed . Good luck
2007-12-03 09:52:17 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She files for a divorce her lawyer will file a restraining order as well if he or she is any good. Meaning you can't come with in so many feet of her or the house. With kids she will be the one staying in the house not you.
When that happens you are out of there.
Best thing for you to do is get a lawyer right now. And you might want to make a peremptive strick by filing first and getting a restraining order against her.
Key here is get a lawyer since laws vary so much from state to state.
2007-12-03 10:13:52 · answer #2 · answered by JUAN FRAN$$$ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she is totally unwilling to work it out and talk, I say let her file for divorce. She probably won't do it on her own without tons of encouragement from other people... She will be timid about it. So, that should buy you some time to get her to start acting like this isn't some easy thing to do.
Talk to a lawyer RIGHT NOW, though. Let them know the situation and how you don't want this.
Good Luck!
2007-12-03 10:31:13 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
how about trying to make up? ask why she's upset communicate more... women like knowing that you're both 'in tune' with each other...
give her more attention, ask her how her day was, help her around the house and with the kids etc...
whenever you feel like an argument will arise just take her side or be silent, try to avoid arguments over 'nothing'
buy her flowers, chocolate, anything she feels would be 'special'... a day at the spa, or do all of her chores to give her a 'shopping day' alone...
the bottom line is: make her happy
2007-12-03 09:53:38 · answer #4 · answered by Velvet Rain Drops 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stay in the house! Don't move out. Many men make that mistake. She has no right to remove you unless you have been abusive. Get a lawyer for advice on this.
2007-12-03 09:50:58 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
Just go...if thats what she is wanting then there is nothing you can do or say to change how she feels...Im sorry for you but at the same time, im also sorry for your wife. It sometimes just gets to a point when there is nothing left....
2007-12-03 10:23:48 · answer #6 · answered by unbroken29 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OMG!!I can't believe wat is happening to you well try to talk to her and talk to your children just not a t the same time.But talk to them and kinda fill in wats going on so there not scared and try to talk to your wife and see if you can fix things if you have to move out for alittle to cool off and restart it happened to me just my dad and mom my dad moved out for like2 weeks and came back and everything is all good
2007-12-03 09:58:22 · answer #7 · answered by lily 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋