if he doesn't, what does it mean??
2007-12-03 09:24:19 · 10 answers · asked by karis 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
No, choose your battles wisely. I've been married for 30 wonderful years. Sometime's I forget our anniversaries but it doesn't mean I don't love my husband. Plus guys just aren't good at remembering things like this, along with family birthdates, etc. It's more of a girl thing and you shouldn't judge someone's love for you based on if they remember an anniversary.
2007-12-03 09:33:40 · answer #1 · answered by Chick with pets 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Anniversaries aren't all they're cracked up to be. That said, it's nice if there are maybe one or two you celebrate but if you have a whole lot to remember, he's definitely not going to. Guys don't always put a great store on anniversaries. If everything else is going well in your relationship, just chalk it up to him being a guy and razz him about it a little (just a little, like a joke). You might get him to remember, you might not. But just don't blow up a relationship just because he fails to remember.
2007-12-03 09:33:11 · answer #2 · answered by Hello Dolly 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Actually he should.. but some men just don't think of these things, yes they should I am always adding a little comment a few weeks before my anniversary! Birthday's who cares, your just getting older so I wish some people would forget, but my boyfriend always remembers!
2007-12-03 09:32:21 · answer #3 · answered by bettyboop 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Birthdays yes, anniversaries no. I couldn't even tell you the month that my "anniversary" is in. I love my boyfriend more than anything, but all that should matter is the love you share, not how long you've shared it.
2007-12-03 09:34:41 · answer #4 · answered by justme 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No because it means nothing unless you are married. Men don't have time to remember the first kiss, or the first time we sleep together, just be happy he remembers your name.
2007-12-03 09:39:08 · answer #5 · answered by harold 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
he certainly should remember your anniversary. but anniversaries? like what, the first time you ate lunch together?
2007-12-03 09:28:28 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Maybe a year anniversary, but past that - you might be asking a bit much.
2007-12-03 09:29:38 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
YES if you dosen´t its fine most guys have bad memories you should remind if like a week before.but my husband never forgot when we were dating.
2007-12-03 09:35:11 · answer #8 · answered by christiana 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why don't you ask this in the singles/dating section. You're not married.
2007-12-03 14:15:01 · answer #9 · answered by Sondra 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you aren't married there isn't an annversary. all that other crap is ridiculous. first kiss, first date, blah blah blah. i don't even remember that stuff.
2007-12-03 09:33:56 · answer #10 · answered by racer 51 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋