when i have sex with my girlfriend, i have to keep stopping to regain myself, is there something i can do, really it bothers me so much, i just want to go solid without having to stop and go, i know she doesnt like it that i have to stop, please someone help, i dont have a way to order an online program, so if you have something that worked for you share please or anyting you know that works, you can email me too if you want markman138@yahoo.com
2007-12-03 08:26:24 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Men's Health
You can build up endurance by stopping before ejaculation, waiting a bit, and then going again when masturbating.
Masturbating and ejaculating before having sex also helps a great deal.
There's also desensitizing creams and gels in the stores as well as condoms with desensitizer in them.
*Desensitizer = reduces feeling , makes it somewhat numb so you're not extremely aroused, therefore slowing down ejaculation.
2007-12-03 08:33:06 · answer #1 · answered by Cabrialab 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You can practice the stop-and-go techinique on your own by going solo. If you have a understanding relationship with your girlfriend, she can help you with it.
Alternatively, you could apply a local anesthetic like xylocaine or lignocaine which will desensitize your focal organ. You will less sensations initially, but that could help you go solid (whatever that means in this case).
Just a thought. Did you just start having sex ? Initially this is a problem, but it gradually goes away as the body learns to adapt.
2007-12-03 08:34:19 · answer #2 · answered by Know All 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't go in with a loaded gun! Most guys I would say 90% experience the Quick Draw Mcgraw effect but have learned over the years to unload a round or two before engaging friendlies.
Being quick is how we as humans survived and evolved. Mating was an act to prolong life and the quicker they were the better their chances of survival. Sad to say most of us still have that trait today!
2007-12-03 08:38:48 · answer #3 · answered by HealthyHealth 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can try giving her longer foreplay. By giving her longer foreplay, whether it be you performing oral on her, using your fingers whatever, it will get her closer to orgasm that way when you do have sex it won't take that long for her to orgasm and then you won't have to stop and go because you will go quickly. Remember woman take longer to heat up than a man does.
Another thing you can do is when you do stop, try going down on her or doing things to her. You know sort of like a teasing her.
2007-12-03 08:44:22 · answer #4 · answered by 3whiskerbiscuits 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Typical for l7 year olds, it will get better as you
get used to it. Right now you're too excited
that you are getting some! You are too
focused on banging the bucket! Try thinking
about something else and slow down!
2007-12-03 08:40:15 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2017-01-28 19:25:29 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Masturbating helps and watching porn. Over the years I've developed porn star stamina that way. I can control it so I orgasm when I want to. It's all in your head (big one).
2007-12-03 08:56:31 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just have her start you off with oral with you releasing. Then give her some oral. At that point you should be good to go while lasting longer.
2007-12-03 08:29:26 · answer #8 · answered by Adam S. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
at 17 it is quite common to have premature ejaculation, your body is stilll maturing...just because you can have an erection doesn't mean you have the stamina to maintain it for very long, it will pass as you mature.
2007-12-03 08:56:25 · answer #9 · answered by essentiallysolo 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
is your girl hot......ok im only jokin your only 17 just like me.i ejaculate too quickly also and yes im a vargin. we're just too young now.
2007-12-03 08:52:04 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋