Would you?

Question

Marry someone whom you met online, had been talking with for 10 years, and would have to move across the country to be with?

Answer 1

Sure why not? As loing as youve met the guy and spent some time with him and gettng to know him im sure that would be fine. and moving across the county would be good. so just do it if you are positivly sure about your feeling for this guy and that yalls love is genuine. everything will be ok

Answer 2

It really depends on the situation. My romantic side says that I definitely would but the realistic me says "no way!" First of all, have you met him because you haven't mentioned anything about meeting him in person? I know a 10 years is a long period and you think you know him very well but living with someone is a different story. If you move across the country, you will sacrifice your job, family and friends. If you start having issues in the relationship or marriage, you will have no one to turn to. Aren't you scared of that?

Overall, I think you should move across the country and try to live together first before you get married because there is no rush. You won't lose anything and you have waited for so long already. When you settle in a new city and stopped depending on him, then you can consider marrying him but you should be sure. If you are not, you shouldn't do it.

One question, has he considered moving across country to your hometown? I hope you receive as much as you give.

Answer 3

So you met this person online, and had been talking with them for 10 years, have you even met this person??? There is a big difference when you are ready to give up your life for someone you never met, just talking to them over the phone for ten years, no, JMO and only JMO, but I would not do it!!!

Safety reasons!!!!

Not worth moving cross country to be with, you see, over the phone, people think that since you can't see them, then they can tell you anything and everything about them, and you will and did believe it.

Take another ten years and meet this person face to face, then you will see this person for he or she really is!!!!!!!!

Answer 4

Only if you knew him on a daily basis. No matter how long 10 years are...it is not long enough to compare to day to day life.

Check his back ground, job, family. Be nosy if you have too.

But be wary...you don't know anyone till you are around them every day. Really. Magic and romance are just that...and they only exist in your mind. Marriage on the other hand, is the down and dirty stuff you don't want to love sprinkled in with the good stuff.

Don't under estimate what I say. Online and distance romance can hide many many things.

Answer 5

If all I did was talk to this person On-line. No I would not up root my life and move across country. If this person is so in love with you how come they can't (or won't) move to be with you?

Also after ten years how many times have y'all been face to face?

Answer 6

I am not sure about this one. Have you been dating him on line? Or have you been actually dating and spending time with this individual in a long term, (10 years) long distance relationship? I personally do not on-line date. However, I have a very dear friend a educated women a college professor who met and dated a man from on-line. They are happily married and have two children... So it can work... God bless****

Answer 7

Definitely!!! I met my husband on line, we chatted for about a year, met in person and shortly after, were married. Not only did he move to be with me, he moved from Australia to marry me. We have been happily married now for 12 years.

Answer 8

Of course. I take it you have met him in person? I met my husband online and moved about an hour away to be with him. Anything is possible.

Answer 9

being with someone on a day to day basics knowing their routine and hangout spots and even simple things like eating and how they socialize with people they come across daily and talking with someone on-line is totally different plus you have to move across country that's a big risk to take you need to pray about it before you make such a commitment

Answer 10

No. Online relationships are not real. The people tend to only share the good things or the made up things about themselves. You should date in person for at least 2 years.