an evil mad woman when i am around my ex?
We still have to live in the same house until his new house is sorted in January. We tend to say- 'hi' and 'bye', and then just keep out of each others way, but i find myself hating him! I want to keep things civil for the sake of all of us.
2007-12-03 07:22:33 · 11 answers · asked by AnneShirley03-03-07 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Thank each and every one of you. So kind. And nobody (so far) has commented on my deliberate spelling error!! Excellent.
2007-12-03 07:36:32 · update #1
diamondb. Don't you worry-i don't do anything for him, it crushes me, as i he can't look after himself but....no i do NOTHING.
2007-12-03 08:03:13 · update #2
If things are bothering you that much when you see him, take yourself off out for a bit, take a little walk or go see a friend. I know things are hard as i too have been through the same. The best thing to do, is try and lead seperate lives without stepping on each other toes. Just do one thing, let him do his own washing, ironing, dishes etc. You may still live together but he shouldnt get any help from you. Good luck
2007-12-03 07:55:29 · answer #1 · answered by diamondbrunette26 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He's bound to annoy the heck out of you and there's no way to change that. Escapism might help - whether it's taking a good book and disappearing into the bathroom for an hour or two, playing computer games to keep him out of your head, or listening to music through headphones - and keep remembering it's only a few weeks now.
2007-12-03 07:29:24 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
It seems such as you have the common indications of melancholy which isn't something to experience embarrassment approximately. I went in the process the comparable element that began some years in the past. i'm now on Paxil and it style of feels to help take the edge of of those cases once you hate your self and think of issues like i'm fat, stupid, etc...., additionally it helped me with the crying spells and melancholy. Please bypass see a psychologist who could nicely be a counselor and can handbook you interior the right direction and optimistically to a sturdy psychiatrist who can prescribe you some thing that may additionally assist you experience extra advantageous. tens of millions of persons interior the u . s . a . be afflicted by this, so don't experience ashamed or worse. a minimum of that's treatable! sturdy luck.
2016-12-10 11:26:27 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some people bring out the worst in us. If you are aware you get really angry than just prepare yourself when you are about to see him--give yourself a pep talk and kind of do the meditation thing you know count to 10 slowly-- deep breaths.. Try not to worry too much Jan in nearly here and you will have your space back--Hope it gets better--if not you can always accidently put a red sock in his whites when hes doing the laundry--does he look good in pink?
2007-12-03 07:28:22 · answer #4 · answered by jet75 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Oh poor you. been there and done that. I had to live with my ex for 3 bloody years while we sorted out the divorce and the house...he wouldn't leave as he owned it jointly with me. It was the most stressful time ever. I hated him so much and the resulting atmosphere was no good for our son either.
I kept as busy as possible and took my son out as much as I could. Friends were helpful in that I always had somewhere to go but I so resented having to be out of my home.
All sorted now though...so will you be soon sweetie....grit your teeth and get in there, it wont be long now!
2007-12-03 07:29:19 · answer #5 · answered by ? 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Smile your sweetest smile on the outside but call him every awful name in your head. Sounds demented but it worked for me. I still refuse to call my ex by his name, he is forever fathead as far as I am concerned.
2007-12-03 09:41:16 · answer #6 · answered by zbak 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Separate the sin from the sinner, hate the sin, love the sinner.
2007-12-03 07:30:51 · answer #7 · answered by Sweet Suzy 777! 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hang in there. Be Civil. You won't regret the wait.
2007-12-03 07:58:14 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just ignore him....he'll be gone soon enough.
You worrying about it isn't going to help your sanity LOL
Good luck
2007-12-03 07:25:22 · answer #9 · answered by kiki 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just try to be nice. Have relations.
2007-12-03 07:27:00 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋