This must be very nice. I am wondering if anyone would share their experience with this situation.
How did it feel??
2007-12-03 07:16:09 · 53 answers · asked by Anonymous in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
romantic? no
spiritually bonding yes
2007-12-03 07:18:34 · answer #1 · answered by ♠ Merlin ♠ 7 · 9⤊ 1⤋
Nothing about labor is "romantic". When in labor, a woman doesn't care. Many have threatened their husbands with never allowing him to touch them again! I asked my husband when we were first trying to have a baby and he wanted no part of being in the room. My sister just wanted everyone out of the room. Any "romantic" part of giving birth would be when you hold that little baby for the first time, and it's even more wonderful if he is with you to share the moment. I'm not even sure but I think it's more "magical" than "romantic".
2007-12-03 07:32:01 · answer #2 · answered by Sunny 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Romantic. Forget it. Only young woman who have no children think this sort of thing. Having babies with a man whether he sees the birth or not does not bring romance to the relationship. When you give birth you can forget all that. I have a 9 year old and hope that romance will return when she is fully grown.
2007-12-03 09:16:05 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
This would really depend on the sensibilities of the partner/husband. I must say most would choose to opt out of the experience if they did not feel pressured to comply. Mine was in the room and held my hand but was happy to look at me and stay out of the way of the doc and nurses. As I ended up having an emergency C-section, I am pretty sure he would have ended up as the patient if he had actually viewed what went on behind that lovely, very strategic little curtain they put up.
2007-12-03 07:22:09 · answer #4 · answered by *ifthatswhatyoureinto* 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I have two children. The father for my first daughter chose not to be involved. That was very painful for me. When I had my second baby, my husband was involved every step of the way. But I had to be put to sleep and he wasn't allowed in the room with me, so I never got to share the birth of my child with anyone. I think it would be a bonding experience, I don't know if it's very romantic. Good luck. 2D
2007-12-03 07:21:30 · answer #5 · answered by 2D 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I have never had a baby but I feel like your husband being in the delivery room is nice and his duty as a new father. However, I find nothing romantic about my hubby watching me sweat, scream, cry and push a being out of my vagina. Sorry...I just don't.
2007-12-03 07:19:48 · answer #6 · answered by ALeoStar 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
i wouldnt describe it as romantic, romantic is sitting by the fire drinking wine and watching movies
I had a c section but my husband enjoyed him self it is the most rememberable moment for a man that has experienced this. my husband cut the cord and followed the nurse to the nursery and he helped give our son a bath (his first) he loved it. my mom called him at work when my docs sent me to the hospital and he is a police officer so he got to the hospital quick and i had just started my magnesium for my high blood pressure and he ran in my room asking did i miss everything? he said it brought me closer to him that he appreciates me more now since then and it shows!
my husband was right there during my c section and had to be asked to scoot over a bit his head was right there when i had my surgery.. i couldnt look in the mirror pretty grouse
2007-12-03 07:22:57 · answer #7 · answered by laylajai74 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
No real "man" wants to see that. Those who watch are doing so at the request of the mother. Ladies, give your man a break, don't ask him to be in the delivery room.
If he expresses a desire to be there without the woman bringing it up then well and good.
How can a man say "no" when his woman asks him to be in the delivery room.
Oh ! While we are on the subject, no child should be there either. No kid wants to see whats coming out of "momma".
Just look at the faces on the kids you see in those documentaries where the woman is having her baby at home with half the neighborhood watching.
2007-12-03 07:26:31 · answer #8 · answered by john c 6 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Well i plan to have my mum there too she has been there for he birth of all 3 of her grand children the only 1 i dont want there is the doctor because he needs to look where it comes from thats a private place
2007-12-03 07:28:03 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It was amazing to have my fiance in the room. He was able to see the head, and was so supportive and encouraging. They delivered the baby onto my tummy, and we both looked to see if we had a boy or girl, which was amazing as we were the first to know!! He cut the cord too! He was crying and kissing me, telling me how proud he was and how much he loved me and I would not have changed a thing. It made our bond so much stronger, which I really didn't think was possible! It was an amazing experience and one we went through together. :)
2007-12-03 07:22:45 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
I wanted EVERYONE out of the room--I didn't even NOTICE my hubby--I was too busy fighting contractions and nausea and then they had to vacuum my daughter out anyway because her cord was wrapped around her tummy and the heartbeat was going down fast--he didn't even get to cut the cord. But it was WORTH EVERY MINUTE!! :) It was romantic after when he held her for the first time and gave her a kiss on the head. ♥
2007-12-03 07:19:40 · answer #11 · answered by ♥Sodas♥ 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋