2007-12-03 07:03:05 · 31 answers · asked by Rose 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Once you are in the process of divorce, even when you partner just knows that you are going to ask divorce, you are free to start dating someone. It all depends on openness. You must not do something secretly. Your partner should know your intentions and your decisions. Once all is open, you can make a new happy start in your life.
Getting divorced does not mean you stop respecting the person you shared some years with.
2007-12-03 08:38:26 · answer #1 · answered by Alice in Wonderbra 7 · 5⤊ 2⤋
People start dating when not legally divorced and its not a good idea. Just get completely divorced, live your life alone for a few years which may assist you in dispelling any ridiculous rumors that will still exist about you and the other guy.
However, people fabricate stories to their liking and chances are you are just time being without him for no good reason. But do the right thing and wait until your divorce and his is finalized before you start a new relationship.
Hopefully, he will still be around after you have been waiting for so long. But chances are he will move on and marry some woman who is a lot less pretty and could never match your wit and intelligence.
Wow...I really need to vent that I guess..
2007-12-03 07:59:28 · answer #2 · answered by The Evolution of T. 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I'll tell you about my experience with that. U decide. I was in the middle of my divorce when I met the girl of my dreams. My selfishness then made me forget that I had a civil litigation and that maybe it was unfair to pull her into my mess. I did. And she had to endure a bitter custody battle that lasted 2 years. In the meantime she was in the middle of all the mess. Luckily she stayed with me and I learned a lot about the women that I finally end up marrying. But this is not a situation for everybody. It takes a special person not to get affected. My advice? Be as open to your new love interest telling him everything. Then maybe is a good idea to take some time for yourself. Divorce is painful no matter what. Take a short break, for yourself.
2007-12-03 07:10:46 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its ok if u have filed divorce and ur not just trying to play the other person and the other persons not married
2007-12-03 07:20:49 · answer #4 · answered by spike 1 · 0⤊ 2⤋
That is a personal decision. Some will say absolutely not - not until the divorce is final. Others will say it is just fine. How do you feel about it? If you are ok with it morally, then do it. It is your life!
2007-12-03 07:07:31 · answer #5 · answered by Kailey 5 · 3⤊ 1⤋
You can date whenever you want. There are no laws that dictate this. Infidelity isn't against the law. It can't affect the divorce either. Support isn't based on fault, its based on need.
2016-05-28 00:35:20 · answer #6 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think so.
I think the period of time between the split and the day the divorce is final should serve as a kind of buffer zone. Getting out of a marriage is hard, and in those kinds of situations, it's easy to be vulnerable and make lousy decisions regarding dating and relationships. Use that time to take care of yourself and to allow yourself time to get used to your new life.
2007-12-03 07:11:18 · answer #7 · answered by CrazyChick 7 · 2⤊ 2⤋
I really believe you should wait no dating for awhile clear your head . If you want to go out with a group like from work or church that would be okay but its better to give yourself some time to find out who you are and what you want before you start dating., especially if you were married for any time
2007-12-03 07:11:47 · answer #8 · answered by minah 2 · 2⤊ 2⤋
No, not really. I wouldn't date anybody like that, and I wouldn't respect anybody who did, and anybody with a little wisdom and self-respect isn't going to date somebody who isn't even divorced when there are so many single women to choose from without so much baggage.
2007-12-03 07:08:15 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
No... finish the current relationship you in before you start another one....
so get your divorce first
2007-12-03 07:09:42 · answer #10 · answered by Back W 6 · 4⤊ 0⤋