This "answer" has made me so angry?

Question

This is just typical of the pro McCanns, They just CANNOT see they have done any wrong.
this is not plagurism before anyone says so...i have just copied and pasted.
I have now come to believe that the pro McCanns support them because they themselves are people who would leave their kids alone and not think it was neglect. They think that kate and gerry just went across the yard...how bl**dy stupid and one be??/ Anyone agree?

THIS WAS THE ANSWER TO ONE OF LISAS QUESTIONS

We all agree (the pros and the antis) that the McCanns are guilty of making a poor decision on leaving the children alone. I will not call that NEGLECT. Neglect would be if they had left the premises, the children were not fed, etc.

Parents KNOW their childrens sleeping habits, so if K&G were sure the children were going to sleep through the night, why not go across the yard for dinner? SO WHAT? I may have done the same thing but I would have had one of those baby monitors with me ( which now by the way, they make with VIDEO as well as Audio).

People use the "neglect" as they call it to justify that they must have killed her and dumped the body. I have posted so many times on how the time frame simply does not allow that theory to work. But some people are just too lazy to think it through and stick by their old worn out theory that imaginary neglect=imaginary murder.

Out of the hundreds of antis, there are many 5 posters that I even bother to discuss the case with, the others are too closed minded. Heaven help anyone who might get in trouble and have those people on a jury. In the states, those kinds of people would never make it past jury selection. I hope it is the same way in the UK but from what I have seen of their legal procedures this far, I doubt it.
4 hours ago

HOWSEY.......typical insult from someone who has not got the intelligence to answer properly.
and yes i can cook by the way...and deep down i know you think im gorgeous!!!

**** I am surprised as a neglected child...your words...you can tolerate what the McCanns did. They DID neglect their children by leaving them alone in an apartment. And i have seen air views of the area and they were quite a distance from them. The fact they were even out of the gate was leaving them. I am sorry for whatever happened to you as a kid...but i am not sanctamonious...im am a loving parent who would never have left her kids alone to go drinking.

Answer 1

Hi Elsie, i will give you the same answer that i put down in Lisa's question

"CHEESY.. sorry.. yeah parents KNOW there children's sleeping habits.. my gorgeous girl goes to bed at 7.30pm and she wakes at 8am... that is her sleeping habit.. the pub is at the bottom of the rd (yards!!) the Italian restaurant is next door to it.. we have mobile child transmitters... do you REALLY think that if me and my fella went out for a nice drink and meal, with our little transmitters we would be doing our duty as parents??? OMG i would never dream of doing that.. I would never even go out to the shop and pick up a pint of milk if it meant leaving my 2 1/2 year old asleep alone... it is NEGLECT to out on the piss and leave your babies alone and defenceless in an unlocked apartment, on a main road, next to a swimming pool.. please tell me you don't have children!!!!!!!!!!

EDIT: oh and they can of done both.. they NEGLECTED their children each and every night on that holiday... they were left alone.. that fateful night.. they may have accidentally 'overdosed' Madeleine.. or whatever other theories are about... I don't know what happened.. but i have my suspicions!!!!!!!!!!!!!!"

It is unbelievable people seem to think what the McCanns AND their friends done is okay... it is sad for their children.. especially when I know a few people who would sell their soul for a child of their own to love... How sad that a baby (or 2 or 3) can be "put away" for your own convenience... don't get me wrong, I love to get a night or a day to myself.. it makes me feel tons better, but i don't ever do it to expense of my child's safety..

On the other hand .. at least cheesy has the ball's to say that she would consider doing it.. got to be the most honest answer i have seen... but hey, i'm glad i'm not her child!!!

Answer 2

I have always said that G&K were very irresponsible when they left their kids (unnecesserely) alone in an unlocked apartment in a foreign country and that there is nothing wrong in criticizing them for having done it ! If Madeleine had not disappeared then the parents would still have been negligent but lucky as well.
There are no anti-McCnns. There are instead pro McMCanns and pro Truth. When I criticize or comment the McCann case I am not motivated by anything but the TRUTH. I believe the Portuguese Police's suspicions. There is nothing wrong believing the Police in this case. Shall I NOT believe them because they are not OUR Police ?! How stupid would that be ?! I don't care if G&K are English Chinese black or white... What I care is that a crime has been committed and a BRITISH NATIONAL and THAT an innocent little girl is missing and presumed dead. That should be the ONLY motivation for all of us to comment case. I don't give a damn about the McCanns I am not anti-McCann I am pro truth and I am PRO Madeleine !!!

Answer 3

It appears that the answer was from an American person. Before anyone starts, I have friends & family in America that openly say that there is a lot wrong with the people and the country. For her to pass judgement on those that doubt the McCanns & their friends is laughable. They think its ok for people to walk around with guns and shoot to kill there. Please don't compare our judiciary system to the American one.
This answer says it all.
Neglect IS failing to care.
The McCanns FAILED to care for their children of May 3rd and they and the rest of the Tapas group have repeatedly lied since.
People want the truth about what happened to Madeleine and I believe the parents and friends know.
Afterall, there's is more evidence that points to their guilt, than there is evidence pointing to their innocence.

Answer 4

i think neglect is neglect! what they did was absolutely wrong!! i cud never do that at all! and IF i did (which i wud never do anyway) i wud only last 2 secs in that resturant and wud have had to go back, ESPECIALLY in a foreign country! but i guess the mc canns will have to live with that on there mind for the rest of their lives.

if i had that on my shoulders, i wud possibly be very suicidal right now. i just cudnt live with myself.

this part gets me fired up:

Parents KNOW their childrens sleeping habits, so if K&G were sure the children were going to sleep through the night, why not go across the yard for dinner? SO WHAT? I may have done the same thing but I would have had one of those baby monitors with me ( which now by the way, they make with VIDEO as well as Audio).

yep im gonna do some shopping at my local supermarket, then possibly have a drink or to across the road to catch up on some gossip, the kids will be fine they flat out asleep, noooo, there wont be a fire, they wont wake up scared etc etc, OMG! WHAT A STUPID PERSON WHO WROTE THAT! arghhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh it makes me so angry!

Answer 5

I wouldnt say it was a modern thing to leave the chiildren when you go for a meal or a drink on Holiday ,In the 60s when i brought my family up it was a normal thing to do,Keep Popping back to see if they are alright ,Then in the 70s I think it was ,,A Child went missing from a caravan on the south coast ,And everything changed over night ,The Clubs on the camps started letting children stay out with there parents ,Even Butlins ,Before that they had a child crying in Chalet 234 interupting there entertainment ,Now there are children out until the early hours there ,or they sell you expensive babysitters I must admit I was amazed they did it ,in this day and Age ,worst of all abroad ,

Answer 6

There was no excuse to leave the children at home they could have found a babysitter or just stayed in. I have children and have no relatives around to look after them ever now and them, so me and my Mrs have had a night out for 4 or 5 years. It was our choice to have them so it's our responsibility to look after them. What the McCanns did was reckless and selfish. If the child is dead they should be prosecuted

Answer 7

I totally agree with you elsie and cannot understand the attitude and understanding of some people. They don't answer the question, they just use it as an opportunity to abuse the poster.. I sometimes think these people are being paid by the McCann's, as it's the only thing that would make sense of pro-child-neglect....

Your original question was intelligent and well though through and I respect honesty. We all differ in our opinions but can be reasonable in our approach but for many on here their response is self explanatory from their shallow and foolish attempts to divert from the truth...

Edit: Spot on izo, totally agree purple..

Answer 8

As an American, I only know of this through the UK posts here. It gets very little press here. But.. I do find it very strange that two educated people in a strange country would leave their sleeping children unattended for even a few minutes in a room they were unaccustomed to. And no parents can ever be sure their child will sleep through the night. To make that assumption is asinine.

Answer 9

I'm sorry but i would never leave my kids alone what they did was completely wrong.when we go abroad we eat early with the kids and then go back to the room earlier as well its what responsible parents do when they have children. I really don't feel sorry for the mccanns i feel sorry for there daughter who was let down in the worst possible way by the two people who should of been there.Lets just hope that she is found as i feel her parents are being punished for there stupid mistake enough!

Answer 10

The only conclusion I can come to about this case, and it is just my opinion; that the McCanns were in the habit of leaving their children unattended for long periods of time and now that the unthinkable has happened they are getting in all kinds of trouble trying to cover up this fact.