its a girl at school?

Question

its a new girl at school i knew her for years i could almost call her my cousin.but she just follows me every where and im not a mean person so i dont know how to tell her to stop flollowing me around and she is always so hyperactive and she doesnt know how to shut up what should i do??

Answer 1

She just likes to entertain you... (Well, at least she thinks she's entertaining you).

Answer 2

Dear magnet: first of all I would find it a compliment that your friend admires you. That being said. It is time you learn to communicate. So many of life's problems and there are many can be solved by communication. It is sometimes very difficult and perhaps you could write a few drafts and give her a letter. Bounce them off a parent or teacher before giving it to your friend. Start with the fact that you appreciate her friendship and tell her that certain behaviors she uses around you are threatening your friendship. List them and tell her you are telling her this because you do care about her not because you don't. It is very common for girls to talk too much. They are fun giddy and easily excitable. The fact is we all need to learn social skills like, not talking too much. Fist she needs to know she has a problem. You can help her with that. In the long run you are really helping her and are a valued person and friend.

Answer 3

With her being new she's probably trying to find a way to fit in and you are a networking source for her.Personally if you 2 are that close I would suggest taking her off to the side and explain how you feel,maybe start out of course w/how you are concerned w/hurting her feelings.If you can't bring yourself to talk to her maybe show her your post and replys you have received or show the replys 1st to lead her to your post.I feel for ya good luck on clearing the air and maintaining the closeness of your fragile friend.

Answer 4

Ive had the same in the past but didnt want to do anything i left it a year before i just had to say to her i dont think we should hang round as much you may as well just do it now youll have to eventually and you may as well do it sooner rather than later.

Answer 5

The Best Answer>
Be honest with her and tell her how she make you feel, then give her an example of what she need to do and what you expect. Give her an ultimatum, if she doesn’t change its not your fault, is her, for not willing to comply.

Good Luck

Answer 6

Just tell her that we need to have some space apart and its not good to be with somebody 24-7 it messes up a friendship

Answer 7

You have to be a bit rude.....can't help. Just tell her that you don't like her shadowing you everywhere and participating in every topic during your conversations with others and so on. Just tell....you don't like her company ....and tell her to stay away from you .That's the only solution. I know it sounds quite rude.But, you have to be so to get rid of her .

Answer 8

i know some a girl whos just like that.
What i usually do is tell he ri need some space
or i make plans with otehr friends that she doesnt know as well and tell her i promosed to meet up with them and introduce her to some of your otehr friends.
hopefully she'll start hanging out with them too
good luck

Answer 9

immitation is the most sincere form of flattery. Find out what your common interests are and learn to drink the same brand of coffee or whatever she is on.

Answer 10

Just introduce her to some other people =) She might start to hang around with other people then and not follow you everywhere=)

Answer 11

Just full out kiss her on the lips once out of nowhere and see how she reacts. Tongue optional. She'll either be so weirded out she'll never follow you around again or if she takes it well, you know how to get rid of her.