i don't need a lecture... i'm a college senior, i screwed up.
please help
2007-12-03 03:44:22 · 8 answers · asked by ? 3 in Health ➔ Women's Health
Planned parenthood, your parents, your schools counseling department, etc.
2007-12-03 03:47:13 · answer #1 · answered by Krissy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I won't lecture - just trust me, I know how you feel right now. Check in the phone book for an abortion clinic, or get on Yahoo yellow pages and search for one in your area. (Or, if you want to have it then give it up for adoption, you can use the same process to find agencies that will allow you to do so. However, also from experience, once you carry it, you will most likely want it)
I had this happen to me at 17 and made the choice to have an abortion - right or wrong, it was the right call for me. You will need someone to take you, as they need to drive you home after wards. I hope there is someone you can trust to talk about this. If you need to chat or have questions...please email me. I have plenty of experience with this one. (And 2 children since that call) I understand where you are coming from and support your right to decide!
2007-12-03 03:50:26 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have a good site about natural miscarriage methods (see link below)
There is also a book, called 'Woman, Heal Thyself' written by Jean Blum. She discusses certain acupuncture points that can alleviate 'female problems' and also bring on a misscariage
("These specific points are called the Forbidden Pregnancy Points, off limits because if someone is pregnant, massaging or needling (acupuncture) these points will bring on a miscarriage in 1-3 days.")
Herbal abortion is probably the safest when you are not yet pregnant for a longer time. (check the sites to know more)
Below I also provided a link to a support yahoogroup for women opting herbal abortion.
As for other options, I only know the surgical abortion and adoption for unwanted pregnancy.
Good Luck
2007-12-03 04:14:53 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No lectures. If you want to make an informed, responsible decision you should read and see all of the facts on abortion and adoption. Please, please visit www.abortionno.com. You will find facts (not opinions) on abortion and adoption. Don't decide on anything without looking around on this site.
I had my daughter at 17 years old and still managed to graduate high school as valedictorian. It is hard to have a child at a young age but not impossible (and totally worth any of the hardships---trust me!)
It is, of course, your decision but make it a responsible decision and visit the website:
www.abortionno.com
2007-12-03 06:01:42 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No lecture here!
There are a lot of alternitives but I can assure you that NONE of them are easy.
I am not here to judge you, not my place! I was 19 when I had my first son. instant message me or email me and maybe we can talk. I have been in the medical field for 15+ years. And I have been right where you are.
2007-12-03 03:49:05 · answer #5 · answered by Amber E. M. T 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there are plenty of places to help you out like planned parenthoods, clinics. cant say it was unwanted pregnancy because you would have used protection or not had sex at all. i would not say abortion because i dont believe in abortins unless it is for a real emergency life or death situation for baby or mother. but if you do not want it, trust me hunny there are so many familys out there today who are unable to have kids themselves and would gladly accept your as their own. adopt it out to one of them. but i shall tell you you will probably regret it one day, because it is a part of you. i got raped at the age of 15 while still a virgin and as a result of that ended up pregnant. that was a surprise, but you kow what i kept him because he was mine, and he is one of my 3 wonderful children, i love him with all my heart and i thank god everyday that he helped me to keep him and raise him at such a young age. by the way he is now 11 yrs old almost 12. do what your heart says and let god lead you in the right directions. keep him/her and love with all your heart and raise, or give p for adoption to a lovely family who cant have children and desperately want one.
2007-12-03 04:02:28 · answer #6 · answered by lisa m 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
try your GP or the family planning agency or marie stopps
2007-12-03 03:59:58 · answer #7 · answered by Gemma M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Church or abortion center, your choice.
2007-12-03 06:06:32 · answer #8 · answered by Topher M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋