I am a guy that doesnt want kids right now. But it doesnt mean I dont like them. The thing that worrys me is the fact that my girlfriend that I have been with for 3 years has been late a whole month she is irregular and usually gets its at the end of every month the last she got it was at the end of Oct. What should I do, is she pregnant?
2007-12-03 03:26:32 · 13 answers · asked by eddie.89_1@sbcglobal.net 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
Another thing she says that she has been feeling cramps and like shes getting it so is it still possible for her to get it.
2007-12-03 03:34:42 · update #1
She took the test and it was negative how come she hasnt gotten her period.
2007-12-03 04:46:17 · update #2
She needs to take a test.
Don't stress about it until you know for sure.
2007-12-03 03:30:11 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
What should you do? Well, probably grab a strong drink first. Then sit down with her and talk about this. It's a bit late to decide you don't want to be a father if your girlfriend is pregnant, but humans are huma and accidents happen. I'm sure you've seen "Knocked Up". That was a happy ending. It's NOT always like that.
You will have to choose between:
1) Being a good supportive father who faces his responsibilities squarely (whether or not you remain as a partner to the mother).
OR
2) Being a coward and running from your responsibilities. It may be more honest in the long run if you don't think you're up to the task. But be prepared to support her financially, your half of the cost of raising a child. Only a real lowlife fails to do that.
2007-12-03 11:37:06 · answer #2 · answered by Hex the Fundies (JPAA) 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
She needs to take a pregnancy test. And you will have to deal with the fall out if she's pregnant.
If she isn't (or even if she is) and you really are not ready to be a dad (or you don't want another child), then you need to make sure you always use a condom with a spermicide. I don't care if she's on BC or not. If she's on antibiotics, then her BC could fail. If she forgot to take her pill or change her patch at the right time, then her BC could fail. Some girls will tell you they are on BC and really they are trying to get pregnant because they think you will marry them or be closer to them if you have a child together.
Remember, if you don't want to be a dad, then take responsibility for your own reproduction, don't rely on someone else.
2007-12-03 11:39:12 · answer #3 · answered by Invisigoth 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Always use at least two forms of birth control if you don't want to have kids, one for you and one for her. (take it from someone who has gotten pregnant on 5 different forms of BC) Since the test is negative you are going to have to wait a few days and take another or she will have to make an appt with her GYN to have another test done.
2007-12-03 13:08:58 · answer #4 · answered by Monica W 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her to take another pregnancy test and it comes negative then you dont have to be worried. Because i was like that too, I mean my period was month to month but then after i started to have sex with my fiance (we dont use protection) my period was not regular anymore. Or another thing that you and your girlfriend should do its to go to her doctor. Good Luck
2007-12-03 13:32:57 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont want kids either...so i take every precaution to prevent that....
NEVER HAVE SEX WITHOUT A CONDOM...
Tests are great at determining if she is pregnant...
it seems like trust is a big issue...
Talk to her and tell her your feelings and if she dont respect them then you know its time to move on..
a kid is a very big responsiblity and if u dont want one it will make it even harder to take care of one
2007-12-03 11:48:44 · answer #6 · answered by firey_depths 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
TAKE A TEST! Yes it is possible that she is pregnant. If you have sex then your girlfriend could be pregnant.
2007-12-03 11:48:30 · answer #7 · answered by Amber B 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get her to take a test
2007-12-03 12:33:32 · answer #8 · answered by A7x 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her to take a pregnancy test
2007-12-03 11:29:02 · answer #9 · answered by Jinny 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well go to the dr. find out and then if she is talk to her see what she wants to do about it
2007-12-03 11:31:12 · answer #10 · answered by panda 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋