So this guy who claims to be straight has anal sex with other men. He does not wear a condom, becase something about wearing a condom meant that you were planning on it and that would make you gay. Is this true, or how do other gay men feel about it. He dates women, he claims to be straight, he detests gays, but he sleeps around with men (unprotected)
2007-12-03 02:39:11 · 14 answers · asked by Queen of the World 5 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
it's called internalized homophobia. and he's expressing that in a not very safe way.
2007-12-03 02:51:41 · answer #1 · answered by scoop 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
girl hes gay and tell him Aids is out there among gay men specially when it comes to anal sex tell him to protect himself and the people hes having sex with and anything over one time with a man other than for experimental purposes is gay no matter if you use a condom or not its gay because that only means he didn't plan on using a condom but not having sex with a man that's makes him gay.
2007-12-03 10:44:55 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Definately in denial. He needs to get a clue, risking all of those STDs just so he doesn't have to admit he's gay is pathetic.
2007-12-03 10:42:51 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
I think he's happy with his choices..but I'm not convinced that gay is his forte.....(doesn't that sound like a middle of the road, non-commital answer)?...sorry
2007-12-03 10:53:50 · answer #4 · answered by djb 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hes gay and needs to carry condoms.
2007-12-03 10:51:02 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
He's gay... And he is still in the closet... Poor him.. Sex is much better, when you don't have to feel like your hiding...
2007-12-03 10:44:13 · answer #6 · answered by Lupe S 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
hes gay hes just in denial.you should tell him straight up your gay and thiers nothing wrong with it and you should be proud of it.so tell him to stop hiding it.
2007-12-03 10:43:42 · answer #7 · answered by emy 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Wow he is sooo gay!!! lmao and im thinking he may have some stds!
2007-12-03 12:03:42 · answer #8 · answered by Jordan C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds pretty gay too me. He also sounds like an idiot.
2007-12-03 10:47:31 · answer #9 · answered by Mr. Nobody 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds bi to me, but with strong symptoms of denial.
Sounds risky, too.
2007-12-03 10:43:32 · answer #10 · answered by Ralfcoder 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋