why do things seem so real and missed after they are gone?why regret later and crave for a second chance?

Answer 1

Hind-sight is 20-20. That aside we tend to live a very lost exsistence. Shoot faith fundementally is based on blind-belief this puts us in quite a BAD situation, because it means we flip-flop between two very distinct perceptions of EVERYTHING in our lives. One were things are meaningful, and another were things are meaningless. Because of this a situation were in can look meaningless, that once were out, seems meaningful. This really is a sign of spirutal maturity, one I fight with constantly, but alas, there is no god whispering the right path in our ears...... so insecurity is the norm......