or does it mean it is possible that he can slip away??
2007-12-03 01:07:32 · 15 answers · asked by jay 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Get out of town!!! Even old men in nursing homes LOOK...it's a natural thing and worry when he stops looking! Here is a game to play with him...pick out a nice looking lady and say to your man "how about that one?" and smile...so he won't think you're trying to trick him. Or...you say.."wow, she's pretty!" and let him have a look. At least you're in control of the situation and he's going to look no matter what so you might as well learn to roll with the testostrone, honey!
2007-12-03 02:16:42 · answer #1 · answered by Sassy OLD Broad 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just because you are in a relationship doesn't mean that you won't be attracted to members of the opposite sex. We are all human and that is normal. However, just because your partner looks, does not mean they will act. And that is where the important part of being in a relationship comes into play. When you are in love with someone and committed to them, you are not just committed to their looks - as we all know - looks fade - but it is a deeper connection, where they want to be with you for the person you are, not just the face. If you are really worried about cheating, I would focus on talking about the issue and guage the response you get. In your heart you will know if you are with an honest person or not. Go with your gut instinct. If it is there, it is telling you something for a reason. If not, look to yourself and see if you are happy within yourself or not. Is there something about you making you doubt yourself? If so, sort that out first and then look at the situation in a more confident light. Trust yourself.
2007-12-03 09:19:15 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
How did you get looking and cheating in the same category. We as humans look and will see others around us and sometimes the other person feelings starts to come out. If you are secure in yourself, he will not leave. I'm sure you look at good looking men yourself. Is that considered cheating? Nothing wrong with looking but when it goes further, then you should be of more concern.
2007-12-03 09:18:22 · answer #3 · answered by Kaya M 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It means he is disrespectful if he can look at girls while he is with you. If he was with the guys and was JUST looking.. well you cant help that, even when us girls go out, we look. Just because he looks doesnt mean he is going to cheat. Anyone, guy or girl, could cheat. If I were you, I would be concerned and confront him about it. With my experience, guys that have done that... they were womanizers and winded up being cheaters. With actions that he is showing, just be wise. Keep those eyes open. You never know what can happen. Dont stress about it too much just be aware of it.
2007-12-03 09:36:36 · answer #4 · answered by Gmarie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Everyone looks at attractive people. Would you prefer watching a George Clooney movie or a Jessica Alba movie? It's definetely not cheating but if he's doing it near you and do it VERY clearly then he's not being respectful to you
2007-12-03 09:12:14 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if he loves you and you trust eachother there shouldn't be a problem as longs as he's not talking to the girl, because looking at attractive people in an instinct its just natural. if you feel uncomfortable just explain that to him and he will hear you and take that into consideration when he is with you.
2007-12-03 09:27:55 · answer #6 · answered by KEMET 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
absoultely not... u expect a man to stop finding other women attractive after finding a gf??? Get over ur insecurity.. Its very common for committed men to look at other women...Even if they dont do so deleberately, subconsciously they end up doing that... Don't worry :) Good luck
2007-12-03 09:24:32 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not at all. It just means that he is human. We all look occasionally and that is all that it has to be.
Now if he is staring and doesn't hear you if you speak to him that is very disrespectful and could be a warning sign of a relationship going bad.
An occasional glance means nothing.
2007-12-03 09:12:08 · answer #8 · answered by New England Babe 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OMG NO. He is healthy and normal. They say you can look but do not touch. If this bothers you, maybe you are insecure?
Are you insecure because he gives you reason to be jealous?
If so then it is a problem. If not tell yourself he is with me because I am the best.
2007-12-03 09:17:06 · answer #9 · answered by clever girl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Only if you are insecure in your relationship. This is what will drive him away, not looking at other women
2007-12-03 09:13:59 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋