we broke up a little over a week ago but we're staying close because we both want to get back togerher, we just need to fix things. two days ago we met up at college and we were talking and we kissed. she asked me if I wanted to go to lunch or something and I told her that I couldnt. then I turned around to pack my stuff up and when I turned back around she was gone. I asked her what happened to her and she said nothing, she just left.
why did she do that without saying bye?
2007-12-03 00:30:47 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
because you didn't go to lunch with her. no matter what...if you were trying to get back with her, you should have went to lunch. maybe if you were scheduled for a heart transplant or something important...that would have been different. you need to make her feel special and that she is number one.
2007-12-03 00:35:06 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
For the most part you rejected her, even if you had something to do you didn't give her details of why you couldn't go out to lunch with her. She probably thought you couldn't go because of another woman, so that's why she probably just left like that. In her heart she was a little pissed, i would have been too.
2007-12-03 01:00:59 · answer #2 · answered by blessed is me 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like she had mixed emotions right then and there. It depends who did the break-up. If it was you then I can understand this reaction to the kiss and turn down of a coffee.
Or maybe she just went to the ladies, did you wait and see?
Also try talking , texting her but don't prolong it as you have broken up and any contact right now may be taken the wrong way.
Live long and prosper J
2007-12-03 00:35:31 · answer #3 · answered by J 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
She might have been upset and needed some time to be by her self or chat with her friends. What u should do is send her a test / call her to say you are sorry that you were unable to make it for lunch the other day however you would like to take her out soon.
2007-12-03 00:35:24 · answer #4 · answered by SMB 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
she probably thought that you to were going to get back together, but then when she asked you out on a "date" you just said no. She would have felt devastated or angry, so left straight away. By saying no, it looks as if you don't care about her anymore, shes trying to make an effort but your not. if you want to get back together that's not going to help. I would text her or ring her and explain why you don't want to meet up with her. Good luck.
2007-12-03 00:41:36 · answer #5 · answered by janetetpamoi 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It may be that she's embarrassed that you said no or thinks now that you've used her. It could be that she did say bye but you didn't hear her. Ask her casually i.e. in a note why she didn't say bye - it's better to go casual and not make too big a deal
2007-12-03 09:19:55 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Speaking as a women, she wants you to devote some time to her again. When you turned her lunch offer down she felt rejected. She was hurt.
Remember women wear there emotions on their sleeve. Unlike men, they think with emotions.
If you are going to get back together I suggest spending some time with her.
2007-12-03 00:36:37 · answer #7 · answered by Gyspy Soul 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Well she was probably trying to make an effort with you, by asking you to go to lunch, and you said no. If it wasn't a good enough reason, maybe she just felt a bit pissed off.
2007-12-03 00:34:36 · answer #8 · answered by Heva 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
hi! well as a woman i could tell you that she left because you said no for lunch,when breaking up and trying to fix things,she probably felt like you don't want to fix things and that you don't care about her,or else you would of went to lunch with her.
miracle
2007-12-03 00:40:00 · answer #9 · answered by (MIRACLE) 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Because she wants to work it out and thats why she was asking you to lunch and then you tell her no. If you wanted to work it out you would have went to lunch. you better turn this around or you're gonna lose her forever.
2007-12-03 00:48:00 · answer #10 · answered by Ang 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋