I am worried if my actions lead to HIV infections.?

Question

I am a male and had a sex with gay partner. I am worried if my actions lead to getting HIV infections. Please help me to figure out:

We were kissing each other open mouth,
We both performed oral sex without ejaculation,
During the masturbation he came out on my hands

Are all this pose big risk of getting HIV? I felt the taste of pre-*** in my mouth, does it contain HIV?? And how risky is it?

Answer 1

First, I'm sorry that you are anxious about catching the HIV virus, and I think that you have brought up some very good questions.

It always seems that people say things about condom protection, but then when one does something like open-mouth kissing and oral sex without ejaculation then suddenly it comes out that these actions can be risky too!

My opinion? I don't know. I hope you are not positive, but without getting tested, nobody can say. But I think from what the media has said, you chances are probably very, very small on your having contracted the virus.

I wish you the best of luck! Please try not to worry! Think about your actions more next time.

Answer 2

If you both are not doing any body else and have been tested 6 months after the last partner either of you had then you are probably safe. The HIV virus usually takes 6 months to test positive for HIV. You must be careful. If either of you have the virus then a small cut or hangnail can let the virus in. You should not brush your teeth for at least twelve hours before oral sex because the tooth brush causes many micro scopic cuts that you cannot even tell are there. Food like chips can cut your mouth and put you at risk. Pre *** does have HIV if one of you are infected. So if you are the first and only for each other then you have nothing to worry about. but we can talk more if you want.

Answer 3

Kissing each other open mouth you might have a slim chance only because exchange of saliva. I think latest research show there is no HIV in saliva however you never know so keep it in mind.

Oral sex without a condom can be risky. Pre-*** is a bodily fluid and I do believe it can contain the HIV virus.

Masturbation on the hands shouldn't be a problem unless you have open sores or cuts on your hands or visa versa.

The more contact with bodily fluid the more your chance goes up. I suggest you both get tested and know for sure and even then I encourage you all to have safe sex. Get tested now...at 3 months, 6 months and a year.

Answer 4

Penis-mouth sex is risky for any STD, not just HIV, whether there is ejaculation or not. However, if neither of you is infected in the first place, then there's nothing to expose each other to. Just having sex doesn't cause the virus to magically appear. Kissing doesn't seem to pass on HIV, and certainly just getting semen on your skin isn't a risk.

Answer 5

Yes, you should be worried. HIV is transferred through body fluids. Not necessarily saliva unless your partner has an open cut or sore in there mouth. But how would you know that. You're playing with fire. Always use protection. And you should get tested every couple of months now that you may have been exposed.

Answer 6

A few of these answers are somewhat overstated and could provoke one to heightened and unnecessary paranoia (and thus to coping by using drugs or alcohol which could then lead to REALLY unsafe behavior!). Be aware of your anxiety and how you cope with it; don't have sex when you are waste or high. The behavior you describe is unlikely to lead to HIV infection. There is probably more risk in starting a car for a road trip.

Answer 7

If he was infected, the chances of transmission is very high and chances of infection (by you) are also high.

I am sure, you knew this going in.... now you have done it, you'll have to wait for anti-bodies to form (if you were infected) and get tested.

Don't forget, other froms of STD transmissions are also possibile. Get tested.

Answer 8

since you're gay, you'd better go for medical check up regularly.. its been say if you have gay sex, you are 70% more likely to have HIV compare to straight person.. one thing for sure you'll never get HIV if your partner dont have HIV.. my advice wear a condom before having sex and just throw off your c.u.m dont taste it, pretty disgusting.. or stop being gay, BE STRAIGHT!!!

Answer 9

If you are preforming any kind of sexual acts, you have to be tested frequently, unnless you and your partner do not have sexual relations with other partners

Answer 10

If you are performing in homosexual acts, you should be tested quite often