i got pregnant once buy a guy i had a one night stand with.. 3 years ago.. so obviously i am able to get pregnant.. (my current BF & i were taking a break)
i have been daiting the same guy for 6 years.. we have slept together more times then i can count (always unprotected) and i never once got pregnant..
out of all the girlfriends he has had, not one of them got pregnant..
my boyfriend cheated on me with this female about 3 months ago.. and shortly after he slept with her she claimed that she was pregnant.. this is not the first time he has cheated on me.. the 4 other times he never got either of them pregnant either..
so my question is.. how in the world is it possible for this ONE and ONLY chick to get "magically" pregnant by a guy that has unprotected sex with me for 6 years and he never gets me pregnant..???
2007-12-02 20:32:28 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
JUST SO U PEOPLES KNOW IM NOT TRYING TO HAVE A KID WITH HIM.. NOR WAS I EVER...
2007-12-02 20:50:44 · update #1
I DONT RECALL ASKING YOUR OPINIONS ON HOW RETARDED I AM FOR STAYING WITH HIM... AND ALSO FOR YOUR INFORMATION... THE DUMB GIRL HE SLEPT WITH KNEW HE HAD A GIRLFRIEND BUT DIDNT CARE.. AND I DIDNT CHEAT ON HIM WE BROKE UP FOR ABOUT 3 DAYS AND THATS WHEN I GOT PREGNANT... SO I DONT THINK IT IS POSSIBLE FOR MY BOYFRIEND TO GET A GIRL PREGNANT AFTER ONE TIME OF HAVING SEX WITH HER WHEN HE HAS HAD SEX WITH ME OVER 5000 TIMES AND NOT ONCE DID I GET PREGNANT!!!! SO IF UR A COMPLETE IDIOT DONT BOTHER WITH YOUR REMARKS!!!!
2007-12-02 20:55:12 · update #2
sheesh people read between the lines... SHE "SUPPOSIDLY" HAS AN ABORTION!!!
2007-12-02 21:03:32 · update #3
Just because you have been pregnant before it does not mean that it's possible to get pregnant again or that pregnancy will occur so easily. I got pregnant after one night of unprotected sex with my boyfriend but sadly lost the baby. So we tried for another and it took 9 months. I know it's less than the 6 years in your case but it is VERY possible. If your worried I would go to the Dr's and speak to your GP to see what is suggested as usually after 1 year of trying to conceive they will run tests to see if there are any problems.
2007-12-02 20:39:30 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
if we get past the moral part of this question, I think possibly your partner has a low or non-existent sperm count and therefore 'she' is lying about him being the father. Or the one time you fell pregnant was a fluke and you may have fertility problems.
I would have the babies paternity tested straight after birth and tell her that you will be petitioning for it. She might change her tune once she knows she is going to be caught out. Don't let your partner pay a dime on child support if he doesn't know for sure. If he is the father then he needs to take responsibility and you need to end it once and for all.
You're worth more than some lousy guy that cheats on you and gets other women pregnant. Oh and get checked for std's as well because he has had 4 'affairs' that you know about, what about the others you don't know about and what if some of them had some disease's. Its just not worth the hassle being with a guy like him. Dump him and move on love.
best of luck
2007-12-03 04:54:13 · answer #2 · answered by Cindy; mum to 3 monkeys! 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
My wife and I have tried to get pregnant for 7 years.. Both of us even went to Doctors, I checked out ok, so did she but was but on fertility drugs and had other test taken to help. But the entire time we never got pregnant.. We finely got tired of all the doctors and bills and gave up about a 2 years ago. A month, we found out she is pregnant.. I've heard lots of stories like that as well.. Some times that's just the way things go..
2007-12-03 04:39:43 · answer #3 · answered by LokoLobo 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
it could be possible but it does sound a bit out there, if i was you i would get your boyfriend to take a dna test to prove it. maybe she was with some1 else at the same time and prefers 2 choose your boyfriend 2 have as the father. good luck in discovering the truth and with trying to conceive. one more thing i would like say is b4 you get pregnant is 2 b sure that yr boyfriend is the 1 4 u as he cheated more than once, so make sure u r not going 2 b left holding the baby.
2007-12-03 04:45:16 · answer #4 · answered by Lynne C 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
What I'm wondering is why you two are still together? He's cheated about 5 times and so have you!! It's really a shame. There are too many stds going around for that!! Just thank your lucky stars you haven't gotten anything yet!! You don't need to have his child! This child would have issues cheating and thinking it was okay(like dad) or allow cheating without doing anything about it(like mom)!! You guys need to try counseling!! Good luck!!
2007-12-03 04:47:35 · answer #5 · answered by ♥♥Mommy to 2 Divas♥♥ 7 · 4⤊ 0⤋
Well It could be true but it sounds like he isn't able to have children since you two have been having sex for so long and never got pregnant. I wouldn't trust what this woman says too much, she could just be wanting him to be with her or something. When the baby is born just get a DNA test and that will tell you for sure. Good luck.
2007-12-03 04:39:56 · answer #6 · answered by Jenniferann88 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Either she's lying or he can't have kids. But honestly honey, what are you still doing staying with this guy after all the times he has cheated on you. Would you really want to bring a child into the world under these circumstances? You deserve better.
2007-12-03 04:41:35 · answer #7 · answered by jaytei 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
You are just lucky I guess! Sometimes two people aren't an exact fit for whatever reason, they can have sex with other partners and get pregnant straight away! Anyway, what are you doing with such a cheater, he has no respect for you and you forgive him each time! What's happened to this supposed baby with the girl he cheated on you with? Are they going to keep it and are you going to be the step mummy?
2007-12-03 04:57:47 · answer #8 · answered by Jasper 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
sounds like you are a jealous person with low standards
uprotected sex leads to alot more than pregnancy..
uh-- stds, aids,
i wonder how many thousands of times he has had unprotected sex with others
he probably has a few kids
2007-12-04 01:50:53 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
it is possible. she was just there at the right place, at the right time.....but it kinda sounds like you are mad at HER...if she didnt know...dont take it out on her. that's your man's fault....you know you dont have to take that u know?...u can find someone who wont cheat on you...they are rare, but they are out there. if the girl didnt know yall were together...it is not her fault.
i was kinda in the same situation. my daughter's father was having a relationship with me, and a relationship with another woman, i had no clue. and they had been on and off for 3 years or so. neither one of us knew until we both were 5 months pregnant. he still keeps both of us in the dark about alot of stuff that went on. my daughter and her daughter we born only a few hours apart. she resents me for it even though i didnt know anything about it. she is stupid enough to still be with him. they are broken up at the present time, but i know she will take him back. he has cheated on her multiple times also....and it hurts me to see how much hurt this has caused her, but it is not my fault HE lied to both of us. please dont punish that child for his mistakes. She has told him if he see's my daughter, that he won't be able to see hers. Thats wrong. Please don't be the same way.....BUT IF THAT GIRL KNEW....yeah...she was rachette. But it's still not the baby's fault. They didnt ask to be born into that. Just request a perternity test if all else fails. Just try not to make it full of drama for the kids sake...urs and hers....they dont deserve that....and find you someone who wont lie to you!!!!
and ps: one in three people having unprotected sex have a std - possibly with no symptoms- so be careful. protect yourself. so chances are...as many love triangles he's had....one in three..... add it up girl.
2007-12-03 04:48:20 · answer #10 · answered by Jada and Ty's mommy 3 · 1⤊ 2⤋