What make's someone sensitive? get their feelings hurt easily?

Question

Is it because they got hurt so much in the past? Sometimes I feel I am. Or I get offended easily. it's because I have a high expectation on myself that anything can break it-a insult or pointing out a flaw. Someone being bitchy to me or disrespecting(like a friend) makes me feel un-wanted etc.,

Answer 1

Being sensitive is part of who you are-it's your personality. There's no way to really tell WHY you're the way you are, because there are so many factors in a person's life that could create your personality.
First of all, your personality is predisposed to some degree, meaning you were born that way and it's in your genes. But outside factors can mold a personality as well.
Two people can have the same event happen to them but react totally differently. It's their personality.
I personally have the same personality as you. I get offended very easily and my self-worth is questioned a lot, but that's the way I am.
You can of course try to overcome these obstacles by building your self-esteem. Do something nice for yourself or for the community. Helping others is a wonderful way of feeling good about yourself. Try saying a few affirmations in the morning when you're brushing your teeth or when you feel as though you're not wanted. Good luck.

PS-try to remember that being sensitive is not a bad thing! All of the emotions you feel during bad times will also ultimately come out during the good times. Sensitive people are more in-tune with other peoples' feelings and are very good at making others feel better. Don't hate your emotions-thrive on them!

Answer 2

I'm very sensitive. i think it's mostly because:

A) I'm naturally a sensitive person, always have
B) have put up with a lot of abuse in the past
C) Am a bit arrogant at times and expect myself to be the best at almost everything. I'm very competitive and i like challenges which can be a weak point.

Answer 3

Not being real sure of yourself. What others say or their actions make you angry because you feel like they are not agreeing with you and that they are somehow saying you are wrong. The same thing goes for things they point out to you that reflects imperfections. You might be a perfectionist that doubts yourself. I'm one and you describe me to a tee!