Ok I am 21 and I WAS talking to this 35 yr old marrid man... yes I know it was wrong so you dont have to give me the lecture. Well we met at the gym cuz we both play racquetball. We talked on the phone and did some stuff for about 2 weeks until his wife started to find out and started following him everywhere he goes now. Well he told me that he couldn't talk to me anymore b/c he didn't want his wife to find out and everything and so we stopped talking altogether. Well today I went up to the gym to play racquetball and he was up there playing with his friends and I caught him looking at me quite a few times when he thought I was looking away or something. I dont understand what this means or why he would still even look at me???? Do you think he will try to pursue me again in the future?? I am just wondering, thats ALL... im not trying to pursue him. Guys... can you answer this please?
2007-12-02 16:29:20 · 10 answers · asked by sagittarius_girl806 1 in Social Science ➔ Sociology
Just don't worry about it and walk away. It's trouble. There are too many potentially healthy relationships to be had to mess with this one. Don't waste any more thought on it. Move on.
2007-12-02 16:39:19 · answer #1 · answered by Jett Black 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I really don't think it is a good policy to pursue anyone who is married, just separated or has a significant other. In the end you will just end up upset. There are lots of compatible single people in the world. Don't even consider having any kind of relationship with this guy, on his part I'm sure it's purely sexual.
2007-12-03 11:21:17 · answer #2 · answered by Organ Donar 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, he probably did not want to stop talking to you in the first place but he did because of his wife. He still likes you I think so he wanted to look at you again and again. Well, if him and his wife break up then yes he might try to pursue you again if he really does infact like you. He likes you and he wants to let you still know that he does like you.
2007-12-03 01:56:59 · answer #3 · answered by Caitlin 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well the answer to this is not a simple one but you can take take his continued glances as signs that you are still on his mind and that he is attracted to you. As to whether or not he will continue to pursue you, only time will tell but don't hope for it and in fact you should avoid it for such a relationship will bring about naught but heartache and difficulties.
2007-12-03 00:42:10 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you're a pathetic homewrecker. Even if he don't love his wife, it's still sad that you can't find your own man. He goes home to his his wife at night, and you're OK with sharing because you don't have any self esteem
2007-12-03 00:38:03 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
It's the original sin!!! He yearns to taste the forbidden fruit!!!
find yourself a single guy... more your age, with more things in common w/ you!
He just want's what he can't have.
2007-12-03 00:42:35 · answer #6 · answered by Jerry D 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
NO,, It is hooking I think,,,, He is overstimulated and just wanna have sex.. I am sorry, but this seem real..
If he is something trustworthy, then would never do this betrayal to his wife.. don't think of him again,, bullshit.
2007-12-03 02:02:38 · answer #7 · answered by Ghiacy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
His intentions are written all over the wall it is you to decide. Lucky man.
2007-12-03 07:04:11 · answer #8 · answered by gentleman 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Just forget about this guy, you're playing with fire.
2007-12-03 08:56:21 · answer #9 · answered by stevel226 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
..He'll just beat you into his mattress for a few hours & dump ya.. Want my phone # instead?
2007-12-03 00:37:53 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋