I'm bi, so is my best friend. We love each other but he won't date me cause its not "normal". What do I do?

Question

I met my best friend about a year ago. We're both bi, met online, later met in person and really hit it off. We've been extremely close. I know I've fallen for him but he won't date me or be serious with me because it's not politically correct. Anytime he shows interest in someone else I get incredibly jealous. He tries to get me used to the idea of him eventually having a g/f but it just gets me more upset. Then just the two of us will go out and we have an amazing time and he's sooo good to me and shows how much he cares about me and at the same time we fight all the time like a married couple lol. I don't know what to do. I want to be with him forever but I don't know if it'll ever happen. What should I do? I'll take any advice.

Answer 1

I have a friend like this.
I stopped being friends with him because I liked him so much & he didn't like me back.

I suggest you become good friends with him & hangout with him more often :)

Answer 2

Fight for it. This guys reasoning is based on the outside perceptions people will have on HIS LIFE!!!! This is immature, painful, and unrealistic way to live ones life. Fight him on this. Not like kick his butt, or yell at him. But be honest, heart-felt, and compassinate about the fact, he is SCREWING HIMSELF OVER! Thats right! I'm homophobic, sorry, really I'm, I can talk with you guys, but I'll be damned if I can do well locked in a room, but all that side. THis isn't right what he is doing to himself. Let him know, also that he is deny himself a life of his choosing, and letting strangers pick it for him, BASED soly on the political correctness of his choices! Besides that, I conflicted heavily with the bi-guy thing, sounds like perversion to me, which is to say, this man isn't gay, he is hyper-sexual, so you could be dealing with a horse of another color..... same for the ladies. But all that sexual orentation crap aside, let him know that he should NEVER let others determine his life ESPACIALLY when its strangers. In the end, what makes this crap, is that their perception weights heavier then yours, not good.....