Ok so one of my really good friends likes this boy. Everyone knows she does but him.
We recently were fighting about something stupid when she turned the subject to something totally different. She said I told the boy she likes she likes him. Which I didn't.
But she said I told him like 2 months ago.
I keep telling her that she needs to believe me and that I wouldn't do that to her. She keeps saying I'm lieing.
Now we don't talk and she hates me.
What should I do.
Oh and we are both really stubborn so I don't feel that I should aplogize for something I didn't do.
2007-12-02 15:15:22 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Leave it be. She's upset because she can't seem to do anything about her situation and is taking it out on you. She just has to cope.
2007-12-02 15:20:05 · answer #1 · answered by c d 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it still doesnot work out along with ur friend ask her lover request him to say ur fren that u didnot speak of anything abt both of their relation. UR request must be kept secret.
Its like to make something better u have to keep something into urself.
If it doesnot work still, then u need to leave her behind. No stubborn grl can be made realized that it was her fault.
2007-12-02 15:29:48 · answer #2 · answered by razorblade 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she may be a good friend, but I just ditched a female friend - not a girlfriend and I'm a guy and it was a smart thing to do because if all you're doing is fighting it isn't worth the aggravation. Ignore her and you may suddenly find your friend being extra nice to you when she wants your friendship back - and then it'll be up to you if you want this friendship to go on any longer....
2007-12-02 15:24:17 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well something sounds fishy. Why would she start avoiding you if it was something that happened 2 months ago, yet she's just now approaching you about it?
What I would do is tell your friends (ones that you know will run their mouth) that you don't know who started that rumor about you, but you wish that your friend would stop being mad at you for something you didn't do. I'm sure it will get back to her. After she hears how upset you are about her being mad at you for something you didn't do yourself, she will probably come back to you and apologize.
2007-12-02 15:21:37 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think both of you need to grow up!!your friend needs to realize that unless he knows how she feels then there will never be anything,and trust me she will live in regret if he marries or something were to happen and he never knew how she felt.So she needs to get over it and let the boy know.big deal if you tell him,I would.whats the worst that could happen,he not like her in that way,at least she would know and she could move on and get over him.If she is really your friend she would forgive you.
2007-12-02 15:21:43 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is not a b she is just mistaken - someone probably told her something that was not true about you. Tell her you are sad about the situation and miss her. Continue to be nice to her and maybe she will believe you.
2007-12-02 15:21:22 · answer #6 · answered by J m 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've been in the same kind of situation. The best thing to do is just apologize. Be the bigger woman and apologize, even though you didn't actually do anything.
2007-12-02 15:20:04 · answer #7 · answered by When Soft Voices Die 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OMG, its really dumb that she doesnt believe you (especially because you are her best friend) You are not wrong, but you should write her a letter telling her what you feel, that way you dont have to apologize but she knows what she did wrong.
It worked for my friend
2007-12-02 16:29:04 · answer #8 · answered by Melissa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she doesn't believe you, then she's not a real friend in the first place. Real friends trust each other enough not to make such false accusations.
2007-12-02 15:20:36 · answer #9 · answered by Nitro 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's not a real friend. Stubborn or not, she dosen't believe you. Tell her you won't be friends with people who don't believe you and its up to her to believe you or not and you don't have to put up with that. Leave her *** alone.
2007-12-02 15:19:15 · answer #10 · answered by MonkeyGirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋