My boyfriend and I are in a long distance relationship and have been for nearly 3 years. However, in February we wont be long distance anymore. I'm staying in a hall of residence for university (which is sort of like a college dorm) and he'll be living at home. I'm 18 and he's 19.
In about June next year his parents are going overseas for a holiday and they were planning on taking my boyfriend's younger brother (he's my age). Then we would have had his house to ourselves for a week.
Well change of plans, and his brother isn't going anymore! Which we're pretty bummed about. We're trying to work out how we can have a bit of time to ourselves (not to bonk each other stupid lol, but because we havn't been able to spend time together alone in a long time).
Any sensible suggestions how we can get rid of his brother for a night or two?
Neither of us have our licence and money isn't really an issue.
Thanks.. sensible answers only..
2007-12-02 13:59:02 · 9 answers · asked by ★☆✿❀ 7 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
Larry I don't think we could do that because we've signed contracts and if broke anything it would be my responsibility. Good idea though.
He's not an immature brat, but he's never had a girlfriend before. I don't know him very well though.
2007-12-02 14:22:42 · update #1
Wow someone got out of bed on the wrong side this morning...
When did I say I wouldn't have sex with him? I said it wasn't just so we could bonk ourselves stupid. Of course we are going have sex. I've been legal for 3 years now..
No his parents didn't leave his brother home because of that. It was because he has university too.
It is his house too, he lives there.
I would be happy to walk somewhere but I was actually saying that we couldn't go away together or go camping like someone else suggested.
You're just jealous because my boyfriend would spend way more than $400 on an wedding ring..
2007-12-02 15:37:21 · update #2
How on earth would you know anything about their financial situation? And whether they've got a mortgage at all?
Wouldn't that be exactly the same as going for a sleepover at a friends house? They're family would be paying for the electricity etc... I've actually made many expenses that almost reach $15,000 in order for our relationship to carry on. We have no problem informing my boyfriend's parents that I'll be staying a night or two. After all it's not illegal... and I am by law allowed to have sex with him and we have been together 3 years. His parents would have to be stupid and naive to think that we weren't going to be having sex. We are adults remember.
2007-12-03 15:07:13 · update #3
Um, instead of trying to "get rid of him" why don't you guys talk to him about it? Unless he is an immature little brat he should be willing to camp out a friends house so you guys can have some alone time. ;)
If the bro has no place to go don't sweat it. Maybe he can go hang out somewhere else for a few hours a day.
Is there anywhere you and your bf could walk or ride the bus to?
Have you asked the parents for advice?
Good luck, hopefully you can figure something out.....
2007-12-02 14:11:10 · answer #1 · answered by moon_walker 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
I can't believe that I'm the first person to mention how disgusting your attitude towards your boyfriends brother is. First of all you post in infectious diseases. Can you not read? Schizophrenia and bi-polar are mental health issues! If you are really that concerned don't stay at your boyfriends house. And if you actually care try getting him the help he needs. He doesn't go round hitting people just for fun, does he? And lastly, can you blame his family for not wanting him on the streets? he's a vulnerable person and your not helping.
2016-05-27 08:08:19 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Bribes could work, and so could threats! :P lol. I think maybe coax his bro to go over to a friend's house for an xbox party or something. Or simply do cheesy stuff to make him WANT to leave you guys alone! Otherwise, why can't your bf stay on campus with you? That's how my bf and I did it. With some improvisation, you guys will find some privacy, somewhere - so don't worry! Good luck - and most importantly, enjoy! :)
2007-12-02 16:22:59 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
So you say you won't have sex, yet you'll be spending nights together. Helloooo!!!! We aren't stupid! I might add that you and he won't have HIS house. It's still his parents house. I'm guessing his parents aren't stupid either, and that's why his brother is staying. Hopefully his parents will find out you and he are planning on having sex at their house. You want privacy? Go somewhere else. If you don't have your licenses, they have these things nowadays called legs and feet. You could WALK somewhere! Go walk to a park or something. Go walk somewhere and get a bite to eat.
Oh, really, it's his house, too? You mean he's the one helping pay the mortgage and all? The ones who own the house are the ones whose house it is. If it's your bf's house as well, then it's his brother's, too, and he can stay there if he wants. So it's up to you and your bf to get a hotel room if you want sex that badly.
"You're just jealous because my boyfriend would spend way more than $400 on an wedding ring.."
That's only a good idea if one has the money to do it.
Anyway, I'm suspecting his parents have no idea of your plans. I'm also suspecting you don't realize you'll be using their water, electricity, etc., so they'll actually be paying for you and he to have sex at their house. My best advice for you is to rent a hotel room. That's what adults who don't get privacy together do.
2007-12-02 15:25:58 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 5⤋
i reckon at his age the guy gotta have plans with his frens too or smth.. ask ur bf to deal with it since he's the older brother it should not be a big of a deal.. and if it's a couple nights u want then ask him to babysit his house while you lovebirds spend sometime out of town like a short n simple vacation or smth =D
2007-12-03 17:29:03 · answer #5 · answered by mohawkshock 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dear Sarah,
Can he stay in your room, i.e., is the hostel coed ? Considering his age, he might enjoy spending a couple of days on campus. Maybe, one of your new friends, would like to show him around the campus?
Larry
2007-12-02 14:20:25 · answer #6 · answered by Larry 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Where there is a will, there is a way dear Wabby,
June is still a long way off.
2007-12-03 06:50:49 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
send the kid out to a all night move of something like that
2007-12-02 14:06:00 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
1. higher a Hitman
2. ask him to go
3.ask B/F to tell him to go
2007-12-03 14:26:21 · answer #9 · answered by TheWeakLink 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋