Is it fair to just walk away?
2007-12-02 12:52:31 · 17 answers · asked by Miss T 7 in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
I never said that you weren't good enough. But if that's how you took it then I apologize for not being clearer with what I want to get across to you. I feel hurt and alone. I know you understand that feeling as well. It feels as if we are growing apart instead of growing closer. That's what bothers me. It really truly does bother me. All I'm trying to do is get your attention and maybe discuss things privately with you. I guess I'm not good at getting across my feelings. Babe I know that you know deep down that I find you to be a gem or pearld or diamond in the roguh so to speak. I hate when we can't even communicate. This doesn't feel good.
2007-12-02 12:56:05 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
Some people are mean. I would analyze the situation and move on. If it was about a job I would be a little ticked off depending on the future and need of the job. If you are referring to friendships, just blow it off. When I was younger I had a so called best friend that would change when ever he got around certain people. When I was 24 I finally realized that he was using everyone like a pawn in a chess game. We remain only as distant friends. If it is about sports or a challenge the person may be testing you, whether or not you accept the challenge is up entirely to you. If you are talking about a relationship like a boyfriend or a girlfriend, don't take it. Walk away and cut ties.
2007-12-02 21:03:41 · answer #2 · answered by MR 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First of all, no one has the right to tell someone else they are not gooe enough for we all come from the same mold of clay .
Secondly, I might not be good enough in their eyes but they are going to know what is on my mind after they have made such a statement ofr made feel in thios way. I will not go down quietly
Thirdly, stick to your guns .It is usually those who feel inadequately about themselves that cast a shadow over others this way so as to hide flaws in themselves. You know the speck in the eye and the plank in another eye.
Fourth, know within yourself you are a good person and someone would consider you the valuable gem or pearl in their lives. I believe this person will or has known this and does care .
2007-12-02 20:59:54 · answer #3 · answered by Dave aka Spider Monkey 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When someone tells you that, it's seems to me that your relation isn't good enough, and you'll suffer more that now in the near future. I think that you'll don't need that...why to stay with that person if you don't feel well together with her?
Is better for you just walk away, in spite of it'll be not easy for you. In my opinion, you don't need to waist your energy to demonstrate to that person how gorgeous person you are...You have other more important thinks to do with your time.You just have to live your life and to be happy, without any demonstration.
2007-12-03 01:59:23 · answer #4 · answered by momotzange5 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's probably *best* to just walk away. It certainly isn't the easiest thing to do, but you're not going to win that argument anyway. The judgmental person will use your argument against them as evidence of your no-goodness.
2007-12-02 22:32:06 · answer #5 · answered by chick2lit 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Miss T, it's not only fair to walk away - it's best to walk away.
Please, don't listen to that b.s. There is no justification for someone making that kind of judgment. I truly believe that every one really is fabulous in their own, unique way.
So, please walk away from the person saying these things to you & realize that you truly are wonderful. : )
2007-12-03 06:34:19 · answer #6 · answered by Babs 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If someone were to say that, clearly they are not worth wasting time or worry over. The best thing to do is walk away. You are above that!
2007-12-02 21:13:46 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
walk away after you take him/her/them off their high horse.
you do not have to stoop to their level and there are ways of being effective without being as cruel.
when someone insults me,i tell them that i consider it a compliment coming from a person like THEM.
2007-12-03 16:41:56 · answer #8 · answered by CHER 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes, it is absolutely fair that you can just walk away.
2007-12-02 20:56:07 · answer #9 · answered by JessieJess 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
probably better to just walk away ...
better than to tell them what a jerk they're being
and now, in my early December
"answer with a song-lyric" mode:
"before you accuse me ...
take a look at yourself ...."
[line in an e clapton song heard recently]
2007-12-03 02:25:38 · answer #10 · answered by atheistforthebirthofjesus 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋