Did you win .loose or draw? Are you the man or the woman?
2007-12-02 12:38:32 · 17 answers · asked by doug g 7 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
You win some!
You lose some!
Some are rained out!
When dealing with your mate, pray for rain!!
2007-12-02 12:42:55 · answer #1 · answered by fire4511 7 · 4⤊ 0⤋
Fights can mean several different things. We get angry and hurt over words and behavior, sometimes over plans and ideas. We try to cool off and discuss it when we can really listen and talk about it, and that may take days!
But honestly, if one of us has to "lose" then no one really "wins" anything. It's not a contest, it's a relationship between equals to love and respect each other. We try to compromise and find a solution we both can embrace. Resentments and grudges are poison, and I might win the fight and lose the war so to speak.
How can a couple go together if they don't share a common destination?
Maybe it's easier for us because we share a common gender. We are both men.
2007-12-02 20:49:37 · answer #2 · answered by patrick m 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Actually We never fight. if there is something bothering either of us we sit down and have a discussion about it. sometimes if one was crass to the other we wait for a bit then mention that is was unnecessary. My ex on the other hand we fought all the time and over dumb things at that she just did not get talking things over and with her because we were not compatible I could not resist fighting. ( i'm the man in the relationship) I hope this helps and if oyu are fighting all the time and the other always wins or needs to feel that they have then you are not in a good relationship and either need to get counseling or break up.
2007-12-02 20:45:06 · answer #3 · answered by ravin_101 2 · 1⤊ 2⤋
I: the guy on a ledge with a cigarette.
Her: the gal with a hard-on because my mother dared to call me at her house on her (RIP) mother's birthday.
Duration: 8 hours the first day, of screaming invective.
3 hours the next day of screaming, but diminishing, invective.
We made love on both days, and nights, so it was win, loose and draw it out.
By gum, I was proud of me-cell for not breaking out in a white riot of my own. 5 or 6 cigarettes, and that was all. Plus calm listening, with "Yes, dear", "No, dear", "Are you such a fool dear", and "Should I go and live like the little boy down the lane?". [I wish. But I kept back chat to a minimum and let her grief and resentments run their course, while I stayed resident with love in my heart. If no where else to be found!]
2007-12-02 20:45:16 · answer #4 · answered by Master Anarchy 2 · 1⤊ 2⤋
Ok so i've been with my boyfriend for about 3 years almost 4 and we fight alot and yes i'm the woman lol there are times when we both lose there's times when he loses and there's also times when i lose and i think that's normal. I think you should both listen to each other because sometimes you both may be wrong
2007-12-02 20:43:58 · answer #5 · answered by MsDaisy 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
My boyfriend and I have been fighting just about every other day for almost 4 months. We have been together for about 2 years and our fights have never been this bad so I consider this to be one continuous fight that started over one thing and then branched out.
2007-12-02 20:44:18 · answer #6 · answered by sunnydayz 2 · 3⤊ 1⤋
Who wins in a war? It takes two for a relationship!
2007-12-02 20:42:09 · answer #7 · answered by ProArtWork 4 · 3⤊ 1⤋
well the best answer to that is we both fight and argue until we get in the bed then from there it usally end up a draw cause we just end it with some really good sex...
2007-12-02 20:45:49 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
We fight right up to the point where she wins...
2007-12-02 20:40:54 · answer #9 · answered by drunkandisorderly 3 · 4⤊ 0⤋
I had one fight with my mate and he moved on didnt get a chance for closure thats what really bothers me. but i moved on and day by day i know i will be okay. So i guess i lost.
2007-12-02 20:45:12 · answer #10 · answered by mmurray001 5 · 0⤊ 2⤋