I get paid less than my boyfriend and he is always asking me for money. I get upset becuase I am thinking he isn't stable or He is spending money on himself. What should I do?
2007-12-02 11:03:52 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Dont give it to him anymore.tell him to start saving his money and stop spending it.
2007-12-02 11:29:22 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him that you don't have money to spare. It may not be about the money at all but about control. Either way, you need to lose him and find someone better whether he is wasteful with his money and will be the same with yours if you were to get married or he is very controlling and still someone you wouldn't want to be married to. I will give you a website having to do with relationships and you may get some good information there as well. Good Luck!
2007-12-02 19:24:23 · answer #2 · answered by Al B 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He needs to learn how to handle his money. I am in between jobs right now (Stupid seasonal jobs). My boyfriend tries to give me stuff and feed me. I have money saved and don't need to mooch off my boyfriend. Sounds like your boyfriend might be a taker and not a giver. What kind of relationship is that. Maybe he has a gambling problem.
2007-12-02 19:14:44 · answer #3 · answered by snowflake311 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hereafter loan him some money if he needs it. Make a certain repayment date. Never make another loan until the prior loan is paid. This is a question of responsibility.
2007-12-02 19:17:21 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, keep giving him money. Then - read my question from earlier today about why stay married? - Memorize the answers cause - once you are married and legally tied down and have the life sucked out of you - you will probably need them.
Or.. you could try asking him why he needs it and work it out.
good luck.
2007-12-02 19:26:22 · answer #5 · answered by Sickofneedylazypeople 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Next time he ask you for money tell him that you were just about to do the same. It don't seem like he is cheap. He is just selfish. You don't need to be with somebody like that.
2007-12-02 19:25:06 · answer #6 · answered by Rosalba 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
err dump him.
Why do you even give him the money?!!
If you don't want to go and dump him straight away then you should talk to him first and tell him how u feel.
Either way ask him to use his own money!
2007-12-02 19:07:52 · answer #7 · answered by Slite 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's not a money manger at all! That's not your problem, flip it! Ask him for money all the time when he gets paid!!! Don't give him a chance to ask you!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Act broke all the time!
2007-12-02 19:30:18 · answer #8 · answered by rita_hiemy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would talk to him and ask him why he has no money himself.
2007-12-02 20:04:06 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah it would be wrong of him to spend his own money on him self. he is your b/f not sugar daddy. you try paying for all the dinners and drinks and everything you do, then he wouldnt have to borrow from you, ever think of that?
2007-12-02 19:55:41 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋