mysterious bed arrangement.?

Question

Somebody please read this because i thas frightened me. i am fourteen years old and so are my friends. i was at a party with my friends. One of my friends who has a twin brother was talking about how him and his brother have a bunk bed. and then he says.. i sleep on the top.. i have no choice. so then i asked him why. and he said i cant tell or else i will be grounded for like three months. His best friend knows why but will not tell us. We have noticed that they NEVER have sleepovers. and i asked how the best friend knows and he said because he went up in there room. So we cant figure this out why the twin has to sleep on the bottom. so we thought maybe he wets the bed, so we asked the best friend and he said NO but its something bad. also when i was at their house i could hear one of them playing guitar upstairs and i was going to go up there then max says to me NO YOU CANT GO UP THERE. what could this mean.. does he have health problems.. HELP ME I WANNA KNOW

heres some more details. the parents said that he cant tell.
and he isnt a bed wetter because he slept over at my friends house.

and by the way i do know the brother he is my best friend

and also i know for a fact that neither of them do drugs

i am better friends with the twin who sleeps on the bottom bunk he is my best friend the one who said he has to sleep on top is like just my friend

Answer 1

mind your own business, if they wanted you to know , you would

Answer 2

Are all of you serious?? It's a family secret so it's nobody's business?? This kid sounds like he is possibly being molested, but it's nobody's business? That's disgusting! I can't believe you are all so nonchalant about it. No wonder so much abuse goes unreported, people would rather "mind their own business" than find out what is going on!

To the asker of this question--talk to your parents and get their advice. If my child told me about this I would call CYS and get their advice. They may even do an investigation.

Answer 3

this means that he is mental and he doesnt want you to know, he has to sleap on the top bunk because if he is on the bottom he will accidentallygo insane due to the fact he is afraid of being close to ground when hes sleeping,and it also means taht hes smoking crack, a type of illegal grug, thats why he wants to sleep on top because he has his secret staff of crack in his pillow or blanket, if anything, call the cops right away, call them once you get this message.

Answer 4

I was thinking "wet the bed", too. But you know what, it doesn't even matter why, that's just too creepy for words. So, keep away from that situation and don't bother with trying to figure it out. Remember the expression "curiosity killed the cat". Don't be the cat.

Answer 5

Have you ever met his brother? His brother may be disabled...or health problems...but that shouldn't be a secret. Ask his mom and/or dad....usually they will give you a reason.

Answer 6

They are called family secrets because they are secret and could cause hurt, embarrassment or worse; therefore, outsiders don't need to know.

Answer 7

Ummm...well that is a bit wierd, but everyone has their boundaries and secrets....maybe you should just stay out of it. For one, they may just be trying to freak you out, and for two, if you leave it be, you might find out eventually.

Answer 8

I RECEIVED A CALL FROM ONE OF THE TWINS AND HE TOLD ME THAT HE SUFFERS OF A TREMENDOUS FEAR FOR HIGH PLACES, (ACROPHOBIA) THEREFORE HE CAN'T SLEEP ON THE TOP BECAUSE HE STARTS SCREAMING AND DOESN'T ALLOW THE OTHER TWIN TO SLEEP.
HAPPY??????

Answer 9

If they were your real friends they would tell you the truth!!

Answer 10

sound's strange to me. somethings going on.