my bf and I were watching tv. and my little puppy was playing with my sweater, just climbing up my shirt and pulling the strings. my bf thought that the puppy was humping my arm. He spanked the puppy's ***. I got very angry and screamed at him really loud and then slapped his arms.
I feel so bad for doing that, but he knows that I have anger problems. he should have not done that. Did I over react? wtf was I supposed to do?
2007-12-02 10:02:20 · 6 answers · asked by kujiiiro 4 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
It was not right for him to hit a puppy. That is what puppies do...they are ornery, they climb, and jump...and even hump. They are just little animals who have no sense of impulse control. And it does not sound like your boyfriend has much either. I can not say that you were right to hit him back...but you did not over-react by getting mad that he hit the pup. I would be irate over that as well. Animals are defenseless and that is cruel. You could have told him how you were hurt that he hit your puppy and that you do not chose to abuse your animals. And if he wants to, then he needs to find someone else to be with. But I can see why would have gotten mad...so would I. And at least you admit your anger problems and can work on them...he is the one hitting little dogs.
2007-12-02 10:16:06 · answer #1 · answered by Jules, E, and Liam :) 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are both at fault here. The only innocent party in this scenario was the puppy. Your behavior, however, is more understandable, in that it could be seen as protective (of the puppy who was being smacked by the boyfriend).
Although you should not have struck your bf, what he did was entirely inappropriate (striking the puppy). In fact, it suggests that he may have some serious impulse control issues. Unless you are really attached to this guy - it may be time to say goodbye. Who needs an unstable guy who freaks out over the understandable behavior of a tiny animal?
2007-12-02 10:06:42 · answer #2 · answered by michele 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First, in no way hit your canines, this is plenty greater helpful to hold the scruff of her neck and say no. 2nd do no longer carry her mouth close, could you like that? Take your canines out commonly and tell her to bypass potty or in spite of observe you % for that when which compliment her while she does. 7 weeks is extremely youthful and she or he could have injuries like youthful infants do while they are being potty experienced. Crate her at night in a small section so as that she will study to no longer to in her section, yet verify you're taking her out late and then lower back early interior the morning. merely wait and notice. this is the main mandatory ingredient and a selection of of compliment while she does something authentic. i think of you predict too plenty from this litte puppy and as she gets older she will study quicker. merely a selection of of compliment and time will help.
2016-09-30 11:24:27 · answer #3 · answered by bardin 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your bf sounds like a mental degenerate - soon he'll be smacking you around. Tell him not to let the door hit him in the @ss on the way out.
2007-12-02 10:38:37 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get rid of him!! Any one who doesn't treat animals kindly, cannot understand his own species!!! SO, an animal may have been humping--but so what!!!!! That's only normal!! I don't think you have anger problems if that's an example!!! You understand what is NORMAL for different species!!!!!
2007-12-02 10:46:22 · answer #5 · answered by Martell 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well you may have over reacted-but you need to be careful that you are not the next one your bf smacks.
2007-12-02 10:26:49 · answer #6 · answered by trixibel 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋