You know the one I mean - you can't wait to see each other, there is a lot of cuddling, passion, and you are on each other's minds all the time.
Where does it go? Why?
2007-12-02 09:50:14 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
Oh so now i'm yesterdays trash? What? was it the no cuddling rule? What did i do wrong? It's cause i made you buy all the drinks right? That thing i said about your sister? Baby i did not even know that was your sister!
2007-12-02 17:31:21 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Like everything there is a beginning and there is an ending. Extreme passions are great for the new love but very HARD to handle as one ages. The afterglow is always there but the extreme wains. I hope you understand what I am trying to say. Be thankful if you have 70% of that initial feeling when you are my age.
My wife says that I probably have messed-up this explanation. To answer the last of your question, it doesn't go completely away, it just takes a different form.
God Bless Dear.
2007-12-02 12:47:43 · answer #2 · answered by 'Old & Cudley' 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
As to where it goes...it's probably still there. It seems like it goes away, mostly because you allow all the day-to-day noise shove those feelings into the background.
All the things you feel you HAVE to do becomes more important than focusing on the person you love. It's pretty typical, regretfully.
You can keep the passion alive, although it may not be as vibrant as new love. You have to make time for play and laughter. You have to make time together as important as all the other things...more so. You find things to do together. You do unexpected things to keep the passion there. Sometimes it's as easy as you remembering WHY you felt that passion...and looking at the other person with that same adoration, same passion, and listen to them.....make them FEEL you still adore them...and you may find the passion re-ignites.
2007-12-02 10:00:29 · answer #3 · answered by Kaia 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Infatuation. People tend to forget about reality and the truth of the matter. Your lover still has bad breath in the morning and soiled underwear during the evening. Every once and a while he is going to say the wrong thing and have a bad attitude because he is human. There is also a good chance that he will avoid you for about one week out of every month.
2007-12-02 09:58:01 · answer #4 · answered by MR 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
That feeling goes away because it's an illusion. You get yourself all excited about the POSSIBILITIES of this new romance, and as time goes by, the veil of illusions is lifted you are left with the reality. Reality is much less exciting.
2007-12-02 09:53:20 · answer #5 · answered by JAS 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
you haven't found your one if you lose that feeling.Its going on 7 years for me and I'm still madly in love with him as I was the day I met him and yes I believe in love a first sight.that's how I knew he was my one and only.
2007-12-02 09:53:59 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that you just have the newness wear off. It is hard to keep that flame hot!!
2007-12-02 10:05:58 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
cuz it is not new anymore i mean love just changes it never leaves you just get comfortable with each other
2007-12-02 10:34:39 · answer #8 · answered by ♥ tweety ♥ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its called being in the "ether" of a new relationship ..doesnt last forever
2007-12-02 09:57:35 · answer #9 · answered by disastro 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because after a while it is no longer new. Its up to you to keep it new.
2007-12-02 23:13:02 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋