at my school there's the s**** popular kids and then the popular pretty funny kids. I fall under the not ***** kind. But the most popular girl in the whole school is a ****, Kelly. Anyway the boy i like likes Kelly. How do i compete with her. My friends say im stupid to fall for the one guy i can't have but what can i say? He knows who i am and i talk to him at school and on aim a lot, but he never flirts with me and doesn't get i'm flirting with him. Thanks!
2007-12-02 09:45:40 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
Okay what have u learned? Sutle hints dont work, so ASK HIM OUT ALREADY. If he says no, who cares. At least u tryed. It's better to try and fale then to never try at all. Like most people have said, be your self. ASK Him Out.
- i dont know ur love interest, but from what i got from u he is shy or he only sees u as a frend. He most likely has notice that u have been flerting. Like have said about 30 times, u should ask him out.
2007-12-02 14:15:21 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like that the school you go to is basically a whole clique party from what you said. Its sounds ridiculous. The "popular kids?" The "popular pretty funny kids?" "The not ***** kind?" Why stoop to their level? That's just common middle school talk. I've never experienced cliques before, but why would you let stupid made-up groups bring yourself down. You can do whatever you want to do to attract this person's attention but ask yourself these questions
1) Is he really that special to begin with?
2) Am I ever going to get married to him, or is this just the common teenage years or trying to date?
3) Do I like him just by looks, or by his personality? Remember, looks can be deceiving.
Truthfully, if you answered no, then I would just move on. If you answered yes, then go ahead and compete with her. Strike up a good conversation with him, do favors for him, find other ways to impress him, or something like that. You'll just have to find ways to dissuade him to not hang around Kelly. Its going to be extremely hard to do that, and what I would advise you to do is to be patient. I guarantee you before the year ends your going to hear that they "broke up" and you have a whole new oppurtunity for yourself. I seriously doubt that those two are going to get married, so why worry? You've got plenty of time as long as you stay in the same school.
2007-12-02 10:21:59 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Competing with a popular girl can turn ugly.
9 times out of ten they win
Let’s just hope you’re that 1
Just talk to him and be your self do little flirty thing nothing too much I mean don’t march up to him and go " hey you! will you go out with me?" it may scare him.
Your friends will always say that but remember friends b4 boyfriends.
Good luck
And hey if you can't beat them join them
Or if you don’t what to do that fined another guy that is in to you
Always helps
xxXxx
2007-12-03 09:49:17 · answer #3 · answered by o0meme0o 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You aren't stupid because you can't help who you like. Don't compete with Kelly or try to be like her. Just be nice and be yourself. I know it sounds dumb, but it's true. And if a boy doesn't like you for who you are, then he doesn't really like you. Maybe you could be a little more obvious with your flirting. Good luck!
2007-12-02 10:19:45 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
the only way that it will prove ok is that in case you in basic terms remember to stay authentic to your self. do no longer bypass shouting the percentages out and making a fuss approximately it as this is in all probability what she needs. ensure which you're advantageous to her and if the prospect comes up, positioned her ideas at relax and tell her which you at the instant are not competing for his affections :) X
2016-09-30 11:23:18 · answer #5 · answered by bardin 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You cannot "make" ANYONE guy or girl love you the way you want.If they are not attracted to you then they just arent.Grow up and get over it.I know it hurts but you'll eventually find a guy who does wnat you.When a guy wants a s--- then all they are after is sex and this "kelly" will be dumped when he gets done with her, which tells you what kind of guy HE is.Do you ant him to use you then dump you?Use your head, not your heart to make decisions with hon.
2007-12-02 10:06:53 · answer #6 · answered by Joe F 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey,if you really like this boy.Who Cares what your friends think.I know the might sound a little rude but it is true.If you believe that this girl is what i think she is then at least try to talk to her.Also you never know unless you try.I am almost just like you there is this girl in my school named Brianna,she is pretty much a really mean girl but know me and her are friends and i have a boyfriend.All it takes is help from talking.
2007-12-02 09:54:04 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Definitely don't become a slut and don't try to be like her. Just let things happen. If he likes her and she likes him, they'll date and then they'll break up. Nothing lasts forever. He probably just likes her for her boobs, but with age it'll be more important to find a girl who is smart, not slutty and a good person. Girls like her don't go far in life, but a non slutty girl will. I know its not what you want to hear but its the truth. If it happens it happens, if it doesn't it doesn't. Good luck
2007-12-02 09:52:08 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if you think about it I would make a plan of all her special feature's which make her so popular and then I'll try someway to casually get rd of them one by one.
2007-12-02 09:53:06 · answer #9 · answered by Dasha D 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont compete with anyone, if he doesnt like you for you then you dont want him!
if shes a "slut" more than likely hes into her for one thing.
you dont want a guy thats only into a girl for that!
2007-12-02 09:49:31 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋