I'm Addicted to porn and it's affecting my mind and body, help please?

Answer 1

It's your body, and it's not sinful to touch yourself for sexual gratification -- it's nobody's business but yours. Porn is another story. It supports criminals, degrades women, distorts the nature of sex, and should not be a part of your life at any age.

Usually it's easier to replace a bad habit with a good habit instead of just trying to get rid of the bad habit, So find something you can do instead of watching porn, something that you will enjoy in a non-sexual way or that makes you feel good about yourself. Maybe go running or shoot baskets. Maybe during the time of day when you're used to watching porn, arrange to do some serious volunteer work. Set a goal of two extra A's on your next report card and study hard at the library instead of coming home and turning on the smut.

Don't let porn control you -- you need to get in charge of your own life and how you spend it. Porn is really unhealthy and teaches guys to regard females as objects instead of treating them as equal human beings, and it sets totally unreal expectations (such as how big a penis is supposed to be -- the ones on porn are mostly digitally enhanced). Breaking this bad habit is an important way to earn some real self-respect.

You could consider getting a filter on your computer (something like NetNanny) that will make it harder to access the filthy stuff. BTW, porn sites are very likely to give you a computer virus.

Keep at it even if you slip a few times. You are a valuable person, and you should spend your time doing things that make you proud of yourself, not watching some sicko sex stuff. Sex is beautiful at the right time with the right person. Don't let porn pollute it for you.

Answer 2

About the worst it does is to influence the 14 year old to make up a name and ask a bunch of strangers a question about it. My thoughts, altho not too influenced by porn: I have a better imagination than some old perv running a porn site. So after getting the useful information, you know, what do different penises look like, how do I compare, what's a vagina look like, should I shave my pubes (that I waited twelve years to grow), what's a naked woman look like, what does having sex look like, etc.?, I quit. I suddenly realized that sex was a combination of sights, sounds, tastes, smells, and FEELINGS that even masturbation could not show let alone a web site that charged money - or floated pictures to reel in customers. Then at 15, I shared a couch with a girl who took off her clothes. No intercourse, but lots of poking around, looking, smelling, tasting (best ever) - and I knew porn would never suffice again. It never has! Go for the real thing, kid. Accept NO substitutes - ever...

Answer 3

I think you are looking for something easy to blame for your laziness. Accept the responsibility to make your life better. Many of us are addicted and can still function in society easily.

Answer 4

Try going outside for a walk, bike ride, hiking, play video games, watch a comedy,...if you are a teen this is perfectly normal...it's the hormones or purberty.

Answer 5

Try to think and replace it with other things that strike your interest like PS games or sports. Prayer and meditation helps too.

Answer 6

Yeah people say porn affects your memory.. I for one don't believe it.


Yeah, I think I remember something about porn affecting ones memory..........

Answer 7

Chill out...

If your older (like 27)

and your still in to it

Try religion

(or get a girl)

Answer 8

Your life is so mediocre that you cling to porn for pleasure. Get off of your fat *** and do things that help others. PERIOD!