My history teacher moved me way in the back of the class all by myself, because I'm always talking. Yet, I'm not the only one who is always talking, but I'm the one who gets disciplined. I'm pacific islander. Everytime I raise my hand, the teacher ignores me, or when I do get th teachers attention, she doesnt even look at me when I'm talking. She never does this to anyone else. Just because I didn't listen when she she tells me to stop talking, doesnt give her the right to treat me this way..Does it? I feel unwanted in class which distracts me in class. What should I do??
2007-12-02 09:25:06 · 59 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
The wierd this is..I hav an A in her class
2007-12-02 09:49:51 · update #1
well you should go to your guidance counselor if there is one and file a report or something or have your parents talk to someone in the school
2007-12-02 09:28:40 · answer #1 · answered by ns1218 2 · 1⤊ 2⤋
Hmm its tough to say what your teacher is thinking... I had one teacher in highschool who just hated me for no reason at all...he used to send me to the office almost immediately when i walked into class and I was always a good student.. What do the other kids in your class think of this teacher and how she treats you? Everyone was always on my side about stuff even down in the office.. I would say based on what the rest of the students think I would make my case... maybe start with your parents or even say something directly to her... and dont even be nervous about saying something as long as dont come off rude or angry she has to listen to you... you have every right to be treated fairly and to talk to her without being blown off... and if that doesnt work go over her head.. go to the administration and tell them whats on your mind.. i just warn you to be careful of accusing someone of being racist because sometimes people are just jerks.. but hopefully this works out for you they might even be able to change your class so that you wouldnt have to deal with her in the future..
2007-12-02 09:34:26 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to stop talking and feeling sorry for yourself that she's not paying attention to you or treating you wrong. She is the teacher and you are the student--it's her job to maintain order in HER classroom. You're there to learn, not socialize. I know this sounds kind of harsh but I've been there. Your race probably has nothing to do with her focusing on you (except to discipline you).
One suggestion: Show her a new side of you! Study, be attentive in class (nothing worse than being distracting during class) and let your good grades show her that you mean business. That will change her mind really quick.
2007-12-02 09:31:50 · answer #3 · answered by Hello Dolly 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
There are a few things that it might be.
One: you might be imagining it. I don't know, I'm not there. Ask your friends if they notice it. If they do, it's probably not just in your head. But if no one else notices it, then you're imagining it and you should try not to think about it.
Two: She might actually dislike you. This usually happens with younger or newer teachers who don't know how to stop themselves from developing opinions about their students. If so, you might not want to talk to her. All I can say is do your best on homework, tests, and in class, and she'll probably stop.
Three: She might be doing it, but not realize. In this case, you could talk to her, which might seem uncomfortable, but you should do anyway. DON'T attack her verbally by saying things like "you don't like me" or "you only punish me." Try to use the word "I" a lot. "I feel unwanted in class..." "I feel as though you don't call on me as much as other students..."
If nothing works, talk to an adult that you feel comfortable around. Preferably a teacher at the school who could maybe talk to her for you.
Good luck!
2007-12-02 09:31:30 · answer #4 · answered by BrittneyS 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you should not talk as much in class. If you feel the teacher is treating you unfair because you are a Pacific Islander you should talk to the Principal about this teacher and maybe see if you can change classes.
2007-12-02 09:31:39 · answer #5 · answered by Mz Bree 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
There are a few different ways to look at this. One, is that she feels you are disrespectful and she's trying to teach you to respect her. As your teacher, she has that right. Or, two, there's a bigger problem. My advice to you, is to really try and listen and behave, if only for a few days, to see if your teachers behavior changes. If in fact it does, then you know that its becuase of the "talking". As a teacher, she feels disrespected, I assume. If, however, her attitude and actions do not change, and she continues to ignore you or treat without consideration, then I suggest you seek the help of a school counselor or parent, or possibly both. Being that you are "pacific islander", there is a possiblity of a racial connection. So, my advice is to make an attempt to "listen" for one or a few days to monitor her behavior. If it changes, then you know it was only for the talking... If it doesn't, then ask for help from someone with more authority than you.
Good Luck Darling.
2007-12-02 09:32:58 · answer #6 · answered by somewherelovers 2 · 1⤊ 2⤋
The best thing that you can do is "STOP TALKING!!!" If you cannot, the teacher has every right to put you in the back of the classroom. In fact , the teacher has every right to kick you out of the class room because you disrupt the rest of the class. The majority of students are in school to learn. You learn by listening. So shape up if you intend to learn anything, and put your " Listening Ears on" Then BE QUIET!!
2007-12-02 09:35:18 · answer #7 · answered by googie 7 · 2⤊ 1⤋
I doubt her behavior has anything to do with your race. I think it has more to do with the fact that you show her disrespect.
As I have taught numerous classes, I'm gonna tell you that she was very much in line. She needs to command respect from you AND teach the class. Neither of these things are possible without her disciplining you. Granted, it would have been better to discipline all those who were talking, but sometimes that can be difficult to do.
Don't feel unwanted, just start showing respect.
2007-12-02 09:30:11 · answer #8 · answered by Jasmine 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Uh huh. That's your version of the story. So don't always talk (which you've admitted to). Do all your work and only ask questions relating to the subject. And for cripes sakes drop the 'Pacific Islander' bit. Believe me pal there's always someone who won't like you just because. It's up to you to make out in this world and get by. If she's racist well you'll blow by her in a year or so and be on to the next game of human relations so be smarter than the opposition (and every human is your opposition). In the end you'll be tougher, smarter and better than this dippy teacher.........
2007-12-02 09:33:31 · answer #9 · answered by zp055att 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Okay, let's be fair, essentially, you have admitted that you are a disruption in class and don't do what you are told. Have you ever tried to give a speech and there's somebody yakkety yakking in the audience. Your teacher has a very hard job, and she should not have to put up with a child who can't keep his mouth shut and won't listen when he's asked to do something. It's your job to do well in school and not be a disruption--save that for when you are hanging out in the school yard or at the mall or wherever you hang out. Be quiet and get to work. You are wasting my tax money.
2007-12-02 09:31:30 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Sit down and talk to your teacher one on one. Bring in your parent or guardian for a better chance of getting things done. It might be nothing but the only way to make some changes in this class would be to talk to her. Do yourself a favor though and stop talking during class.'
2007-12-02 09:30:32 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋