if you bump into an ex boyfriend and the chemisrty is still there can it work?

Question

ok.... a friend asked me this......

she ran into an x at a party they r both in a relationship and they both have kids....

now she felt the chemistry they had back when they were dating and he tells me the same about her.....now is it possible that it can work between them? i see how they interact with eachother and they both treat eachothers kids the same....but the only problem is that they both r in a relationship...should i convince them to try it out and break there recent relationships or not to think about and work with there partners in what ever it is that is giving them a reason to try to go back with thr ex

Answer 1

Obviously there's some sort of chemistry, like there must have been some reason why she dated him when they were together.

However, there's also a reason why they broke up... there's always that initial infatuation with someone who is 'forbidden'. But she should just dismiss it. The grass isn't always greener on the other side.

I'm sure it's quite possible that things can work out between the two exs. But, now they have commitments, like kids. It's easy to become reinfatuated with someone you have a history with. You don't get to see their faults until much later.

Honestly, these two people should just branch away and forget that party. They both have kids and families now, it's kind of too late.

Answer 2

i think that they shouldnt break up with their other spouses cause they were exes. they could hurt their spouses 2. plus if those ppl already broke up with their exes they probably did it 4 a reason. that means that they werent right 4 each other, so they most likely still arent. i think that they should just leave it alone.

Answer 3

"Should you convince them.." ?????
It's their choice. It's a difficult one.
With serious consequenses.
You should butt the hell out unless your advice is
specifically asked for.