What do you think about this????

Question

One saturday morning my friend called me and asked my to go to the mall with her. Of course I said yes. What girl wouldn't???lol...anyway... Then she said, "Oh ya- did I tell you my cousin's here too?" i was ok with that though. then she started talking about how her parents were at work and stuff..... and how they won't be able to give her a ride. (Cause she wanted my parents to give us a ride) Well, my dad was at work & my mom was working on an important paper for school. My brother ended up taking us, since I felt really bad asking my mom to stop everything she's doing to take us.

Also this:

My friend asks me to go to a pancake breakfast with her cause it's boring when she's by herself. Well, then I have to pay to get in ($5- and I don't even like pancakes that much!) and she's having fun with her bro's friends taking pics and stuff. While I'm just sitting there!

What do you think about this???

Answer 1

This is not a friend but a user. She is using you to her advantage.

First of all, she wanted to go to the mall and then all the plans and arrangements where put on you. No way.

Secondly the pancake breakfast. If she wanted you to go she should have payed. If I invited you to lunch. I would assume that I would pay since I invited you. If someone invites you over for dinner, Do you make it??

She has no boundaries and has the princess mentality. Dump her if she does not show you respect.

Answer 2

True friendship is when both people care and respect each other equally. No one should feel used.
Talk to your friend and get the tough stuff out of the way then if the friendship is worth keeping, you will have a real friend.

Answer 3

I think you both need to get in touch with reality and quit acting so "highschool".

Then again, you are probably 14 so this is expected at or around this age. You grow out of it. As for your friend, as others have mentioned, she's using you. She probably just wants another person around her so she doesn't look so alone, and when she does have that other person around she ignores them because they're just an accent piece, so to speak. Tell her to find someone else to be boring with.

Answer 4

i know how u feel. good ol 3rd wheel. go easy on being taxi for your friends coz you'll get used. confront your friend (gently) and let her know that she invited you there to be with her so take some consideration into that you feel left out. let her know too that you dont neccisarily (sp?) need her to hold your hand but you would like company coz she asked you to be there in the first place

Answer 5

Please do not take this the incorrect way, yet i think of you're making a greater deal out of this than it ought to be. particular, i don't accept as true with the countless issues that Kokoro, Daoshi, and Karate Dave (as nicely as many different such sturdy persons here on Y!A) have stated, only like i'm particular that lots of you have probable disagreed with the countless issues i've got stated. and particular, on occasion we've additionally stated issues that we've regretted later, or have stated some thing that probable could have been phrased extra advantageous. we are human. We make errors. we've viewpoints of our own, ideal or incorrect. I settle for that folk won't accept as true with me, and in line with possibility because of the fact of that i've got additionally popular that usually there will be human beings for whom it style of feels their finished life seems to revolve around dissing human beings, even however there seems no actual foundation for his or her accusations. those persons here on Y!A (no remember if "they" incredibly are many separate persons or purely a single guy or woman utilising multiple debts) bash because of the fact they are schmucks, and the extra interest we provide them, the extra they bash. there is an exceptionally sturdy explanation why the previous asserting "do not feed the trolls" is uttered in any respect (much less as much as that's) around here - as long as they see that what they are doing is bugging you, they are going to proceed to do what they do. you do not care what the trolls think of roughly you, so why hassle approximately what they think of roughly each and every physique else? only overlook approximately them. Please have faith me - they don't seem to be incredibly actually worth the aggravation. EDIT: a factor of the reason of my asserting that I felt you have been making a greater deal out of this that it ought to be is which you maintain bringing a number of those issues up. definite, you will possibly not have *meant* for each physique to think of which you have been uptight and making a huge deal out of it, yet that's the way it incredibly is coming for the era of, no remember in case you meant it that way or not. If those themes at the instant are not that super of a deal, then why talke approximately them in any respect?

Answer 6

i think whoever this friend of yours is, shes using you and only has you around as a spare. ya know.
i know how you feel, i used to have friends like that.
you deserve better then that so dont take her ****.
its not worth it and plus you only have one life to live so spend it with better people who actually care about you!!

Answer 7

She just wants to have someone around just in case she ends up bored at any point in time.

Answer 8

She's using you. It's apparent that she only REALLY wants you there for your money and ride, She may like you to be there for show, but I wouldn't count on it.

Answer 9

the mall thing, why didnt u say u counldt go.
the pancake thing, include ur self shes not the one whos unincluding you your unincluding your self i know it hard
try to talk to her, or stop giving in ♥

Answer 10

ur friend is seriously taking control of u maybe u should say no to some things