Virgin? Yes or No? Plz Help!?

Question

Hmm..I'm not sure wherever i have lost my virginty..my bf entered me but not completly..maybe just a little but afterwards..like an hour later i was really sore (my first time) and could hardly sit down..but there was no bleeding =| i dont horse ride and I have never bled randomly that could possibly suggest i lost my hymen during active sports, and I have never had anything being inserted inside untill then =|..I'm just wondering if im still a virgin? And if not..then why havent i bled?

Many thanks..and no negative comments please =D..I just need some help!

So for your "cherry to pop" does that mean you have to bleed? =S

Answer 1

Just my two cents- even if you don't horseback ride or anything, you still might have 'popped your cherry' doing something else, like using a tampon or yes, playing sports. Some girls lose it when they're riding their bikes or falling hard the right way can puncture it too. It doesn't always hurt or bleed, so you may not have even noticed it.

And no, if he even entered you a little bit, you're technically not a virgin anymore.

Hope you're not so sore now!

Answer 2

If you go by the definition of "a person who has never had sexual intercourse" then no, you are not a virgin. Putting the penis in the vagina even if it's only for a short time, means you've had sexual intercourse. Which means by the most common definition of the term, you are not a virgin.
Which is okay. Presumably, you chose to do this with your boyfriend? What you choose to do with your own body is up to you, and it doesn't make you any better or worse a person.

Many women are born with a very thin or even non-existent hymen (the membrane that is cross the vagina and which can cause bleeding when broken). Many women have very stretchy hymens. Even riding a bike can break a hymen. Many women do not bleed when they first have sex, and that does not mean that they were any less a virgin before, or any more a virgin after.

Answer 3

Hmm..tech. I'm not sure. My first time I didn't bleed and I wasn't sore, but I don't remember any instances in my youth that would have made me loose my hymen. I think everyone is different. Personally, I would say you weren't because you have done the act. I also think virginity is largely a mental state. By the time I actually did have sex, I had already done so much mentally and physically w/ my boyfriend I didn't feel like a virgin. That's not to say there isn't a difference, but I also know friends that have been married for years and haven't experienced much at all. I guess I'm getting off of the topic, so my answer would be, I don't know. It could be since he didn't enter you completely, he didn't reach the hymen.

Answer 4

The usual consensus is that penetration=loss of virginity.

The hymen, while present in some virgins, is non-existent in others for whatever reason. There's even a "re-virgination" surgery where (!) a woman who has sufficient hymen tissue remaining can have it stitched back together in order to "break" it again.

Boy, some people really need to find a better use for their money! A hymen-repair surgery? Really, people. No.

But this leads to the whole stupid, "oral sex isn't sex" discussion and all the accompanying discussions.

Like, masturbation=sex? Self-sex? So someone who masturbates isn't a self-virgin, but is an other-people-virgin?

Or to be more Pagan about it, "virginity" means a stage where a person is complete by him/her-self, unmarried, childless, unfettered.

Not necessarily celibate or "re-virginated."

It's a little more philosophical than you might think.

But no, you're not a virgin anymore by the usual standards.

Though you could be a virgin by the European earth spirituality standards if you're not a mother and not married or committed in some way.

Sorry it's confusing.

Answer 5

The definition of a virgin is 'a person (esp a woman) who has not had sexual intercourse.' You obviously have had even if penetration was minimal. Whether the hymen is broken is irrelevant. There are lots of old wives tales about losing your virginity. You do not necessarily bleed but I hope you took precautions.If not then you could be pregnant. If you are both young and inexperienced it is possible that he lost sperm without realising it. If you do insist of having sex, firstly make sue you don't do it until you are legally allowed to. (Aged 16 normally) and that he wears a condom. There is also the risk of sexually transmitted disease. Call at your local doctors or birth control clinic, tell them you are starting to have sex and ask for their advice. Don't be worried, they deal with such things every day. It's more important to be educated properly before you start than getting an unwanted pregnancy. My daughter is a nurse and on just one day last week, she tells me, she assisted in nine terminations of pregnancies ion theatre. On the patients notes every one said 'unwanted pregnancy'. Make sure that you're not visiting there!

Answer 6

The only sure way to know if to check. You can tell by looking. Not everyone bleeds when their hymen is broken, and not even everyone HAS a hymen. All people are different and you could just be feeling sore because the walls of your vagina were stretched so that his penis would fit.

Answer 7

Honey, people lose their virginity when they have sex. If you let your boyfriend have any internal contact with you, you lost your virginity.

I don't know why people are so obesses with this whole hymen thing, because it has absolutely NOTHING to do with your virginity!!!! And I didn't bleed the first time I had sex. Not all females do.

Answer 8

You lose your virginity through penetration. You may have been penetrated slightly, but you was still penetrated. I did not bleed when I lost mine although it hurt really bad. My sister bled but didn't hurt. Everyone is different.

Edit: Also, you may bleed but it be very light that you don't notice. You may see some blood later or not at all.

Answer 9

by utilising the way this question is asserted we can inform you're youthful and weren't almost emotionally waiting or mature sufficient for intercourse. despite the fact that what's performed is done. you're able to attempt to stay remote from intercourse for a pair greater years until your greater mature and characteristic greater existence journey. This guy would rigidity you into doing it lower back so reducing all ties, or ignoring him, is the terrific thank you to flow. you isn't tempted to do something sexual lower back. i'm happy you used a condom and have been risk-free! it would additionally help to speak to an parental determine approximately this, somebody on the edge of you.

Answer 10

Your not a virgin anymore, but your "cherry" hasn't popped yet if thats what you mean, haha Sometimes it doesnt always happen the first time because you don't really do it thouroughly, that sounds weird but i know me and my b/f had sex a few times before my cherry actually popped.