I can't get any girlfriends and all my friends have hot ones.
My friends are lazy and treat their girlfriends like CRAP! They are not nice to their girlfriends at all, why do girls still like them? Because they skate? And do stupid stuff like in Jackass the movie?
I am scared and really nice to girls, but no girls want me, is it because i'm nice?
Why dont girls date nice guys like me? Should i stop being nice and act like my friends... Well they arent actually my friends but i want to be their friends because i think they're cool
2007-12-02 06:17:57 · 52 answers · asked by gilbert 2 in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
well from what you wrote...i could say your under 18...young people usually like the opposite sex to be social...fun...funny... usually someone who is scared and really nice to girls like you said might not be as funny as what they want them to be...
but the bad boy thing only lasts for a while...after that they will want someone more responsible and more respectful...so you should stay nice...
2007-12-02 06:23:28 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
No No never stop being nice. Do not change your character for someone you doesnt even now. You know you are nice right ? that means half the problem is solved.those hot gals who fall for other guys who are jackass or treat their gal friends like crap are all WASTE.
A girl who really understands you and likes you is just getting closer to you but you have to wait and be a lil patient.
Remember they say..all good apples are always on the top of the tree..you are one of them and other like those jackass are all like bad apples and bad people attract bad gals.
Make yourself more confident and strong. Have hopes in urself never let urself get down just because u dont have a girlfriend.
Wait and watch u will be the luckiest and will get very good one than anybody.
Just be patient and continue to be nice and confident.
All the best
2007-12-02 06:24:39 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't be at your "friends" level. It's not a healthy relationship if you're treating the girl like crap. They're probably not happy in their relationship, but they're being idiots for staying with a guy who would be mean. The difference between you and them that makes them more appealing is that they appear as more outgoing, which looks more confident. You just need to enhance your personality. Reminds me of stage presence. You have to be present. Just be who you are and upgrade it. The problem is you're getting upset because these girls like your friends who are jerks towards them, but you have to think outside the box and realize you don't want that type of girl who would go after that type of guy. You want someone intelligent and more common sensical than that. Someone hot and smart will come along. Your time will come. It's not even their time because those relationships won't last for long if they keep treating them like crap. You don't need to join them, let the coolness be you. You should be the bomb. You're the good guy. Let the crowd follow you. Have that positive energy. Dress as confident as you want to be and you will start to believe it.
2007-12-02 06:21:50 · answer #3 · answered by Story Unknown 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
You dont want to be a person friend just cause they do stupid thing's and if you'r trying to get a girl and you think that they dont want you because you'r a nice guy that's wrong they prefer the nice one's...No worries you will get you'r the longer the wait the better the girl then those guy's will be up set cause you'll have a better g/f then they do
2007-12-02 06:22:41 · answer #4 · answered by camp 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, the bad axxhole guys often get the hot girls, but what does that say about the girls?
Look for a nice girl who's a little shy and not dating and start talking to her. Couples who have more than a physical attraction do stay together longer and have a better chance at a happier live together.
2007-12-02 06:24:17 · answer #5 · answered by Dan H 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO !!!
I was the same way, and trust me they come around.
They get tired of the crap, tired of making excuses for thier idiot boyfriends.
The trick is to keep looking and talking to girls. The more you put your self out there talking to girls and meeting new girls the more popular you will become.
Most guys are afraid to talk to girls so they treat them bad out of fear. The girls are so glad to have a guy talk to them, they put up with it. Your mission should you decide to accecpt, is to show them, there are some nice guys around. Some girls have been treated like crap there entire life and will not respond, walk away. You can not help them with their pain, that will be someone elses job, trust me you don't want that job. Every time you walk away from one, 20 thats right 20 more are waiting for you to start talking to them. They are everywhere.
2007-12-02 06:28:45 · answer #6 · answered by FREE4ALL8 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know exactly how you feel buddy I used to have that problem but I've since found the love of my life and in the end you'll find that girls will look for guys like yourself once they realise these other people can't give them long term security. Don't ever change who you are as a person I'm sure you're a wonderful guy.
Thank you very much :)
It will happen someday.
2007-12-02 06:22:50 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It seems like that now but eventually girls will get sick of those kinda guys and go to nice ones like you and wonder why they didnt all along. Those girls probly aren't worth it anyway if thats all they want in a guy so... DONT STOP BEING NICE!
Good luck! im sure you will find a girl soon
2007-12-02 06:22:23 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude 1st off if you have to impress these guys cause they're "cool" to be friends your better off tellin um to kick rocks or something cause it's not worth wasting your time....
and the girlfriend just b nice but act goofy or sumtin and say no when u first meat um.... girls like assholes for some dumb reason so act like 1 a littlebit its actually cinda fun.... but don't take it to far ... good luck dog
2007-12-02 06:24:32 · answer #9 · answered by Crazy Kung Foo Wolf Bastard 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i think your just scared of girls and it has nothing to do with you being nice at all, if you are yourself then a girl is going to like you just like that....so you need to quit talking **** about your friends, grow some balls and stop being such a wuss. sorry was that mean? I'm sure it sounds mean but really it will I'm only trying to help you out, i really am. good luck man, hope you find yourself a lady real soon.
2007-12-02 06:23:59 · answer #10 · answered by Neev 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont act like them, but dont be too nice. guys who are always nice but never interesting to the girls never get them. if you feel like being sarcastic or just letting some emotion out (not crying or something like that) do it in front of girls. the ones who like that will want to get to know you, and the others will go away. this doesnt mean to be mean or sarcastic all the time, just let your personality show.
2007-12-02 06:22:06 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋