I HAD a friend, who was never allowed to go out and do normal stuff but since we are no longer friends he has completely changed and is allowed to go out, etc. Now he is making most of my friends go against me and getting me into trouble!!!
How do I get revenge on him and how can I get my friends back?
2007-12-02 06:17:54 · 39 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
use tactical means
never get caught with your hand in the jar
instead be the viper under the rose - Macbeth quote lol
2007-12-02 06:20:38 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 5⤊ 0⤋
If they' really your friends they won't go against you. If they do just because this guy says to, they're not really friends in the first place, so good riddance. Eventually these guys will see that your fake friend is no good. If you want some kind of revenge, that'll be it, you just may have to wait a while for it. Meantime, you can mention to everybody who wil listen what a rat this guy is. Don't make a huge deal out of it or seem like you feel sorry for yourself. Just tell people as a warning what kind of phony he is.
2007-12-02 06:23:48 · answer #2 · answered by Ox 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no,revenge is not the answer remember he knows you and will expect it,and turn even more people against you as by doing smething nasty will proove him right,hes waiting for a reaction from you so dont give him any just go about with a crafty smile on your face and psycholodgicaly this will get to him he will wonder why your taking things so easy,and the crafty smile will make him think you are up to something,if you have any relations out of town go visit them on a weekend he will wonder were you are and what your up to,keep a low profile for a bit,and if possible get a girlfreind. and if all else fails tell everyone you caught him sniffing ur mothers knickers and thats why you fell out.
2007-12-02 18:24:27 · answer #3 · answered by fozz 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
George as others have told you GROW UP! is your life really so sad? I have dumped friendsa for a lot less. Believe me when this guy finds new friends and dumps these ones that will be revenge enough. If you are seen to be being vengeful and childish you will never get your friends back anyway; or do I detect more to this broken friendship than just a mate?
2007-12-02 06:27:21 · answer #4 · answered by Christopher P 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Obviously there is more to this story than you are willing to tell us.
Trying to take revenge is never a good idea. BUT, when we are wronged by someone, you can be a facilitator of KARMA.
This is best done at a later date, very much later. Thus the saying: "Revenge is a dish best served cold."
Bide your time. If you have been wrongfully accused, it may just take some time to prove the whole thing wrong.
2007-12-02 06:28:49 · answer #5 · answered by Pixie 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Been through a similar situation a few years ago. Make some new friends and let him get on with it. It will come and bite him so far up the A*SE that he'll end up with nobody. If in the meantime your other friends make contact with you then you can be sure they are mates, the others, as hard as it may seem aren't worth the headache. Good luck.
2007-12-02 06:23:32 · answer #6 · answered by daisydoormouse 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do nothing and act like a man:), you will only regret it. If he is that stupid He is not even worth a revenge. Your friends will realize that soon too. Be strong!! ;) If you are doing something, maybe he will use it against you and that is not good!!
2007-12-02 06:22:31 · answer #7 · answered by Singoalla 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First learn to spell the word"Idea" and then maybe you'll be able to figure this one out yourself!
PS - Those friends, that left you, were never really the friends you thought they were.
FORGET ABOUT REVENGE AND GET NEW FRIENDS!
2007-12-02 06:28:54 · answer #8 · answered by puzzled 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Anger makes fools of us all. revenge solves nothing. I belive in what goes around come around. IT actually works.example. i liked this girl in middle school she made me look like an *** in front of the school and embarrassed me now out of high school i seen her, and she i huge has a kid and ugly. justice served
Revenge can be traced back to you and when it comes it comes
but there are always paintball guns
2007-12-02 06:25:43 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok do you have any dirt ... if you do use it and make a fair warning your gonna say something like IM your friend prefebly when you find out your other friends are there and say why are you doing this to me and all of that crap then just be like listen i want to be your friend lets not fight ok then make the other person seem like a sob bc youll like threaten to tell someone about their dirt if no friends are ever there do the dirt tell thing or find new friends and make them feel jealous.
2007-12-05 11:36:51 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude you are acting SO immature revenge!? That is just dumb. Heres my advice...
1. Build a Bridge
2. GET OVER IT!!!!
YOu shouldn't get freaked out unless he kissed your girlfriend..
2007-12-02 06:37:43 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋