i lost my brother..
http://www.militarycity.com/valor/3173540.html
he was everything to me.i dont know what i would do.
i realized that he was the person that always motivated me to do everything i desired.he told me that when he passes away he wants me to know that he loves me and nothing is gonna change what we shared in our lifetime.
anyone?? help me??
friday at school......
the whole day..i thought about my brother.
i cant stop.
hes my everything..
and i cried my heart out..pounding the ground..
what can i do to get over this??
i need my brother.
someone please help me.
thank you.
♥ hawaiian.babe
2007-12-02 06:02:00 · 6 answers · asked by nitababyy 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
You have my condolences for your loss!
You have to go on and be strong for yourself and for him as well since that is what he would want you to do but you may need to get counseling to help you deal with that.
One thing that may help is to establish a memorial for him at a site I will give you so that even though he is gone, there is this site to visit and talk to him. A friend lost his wife over a year ago to cancer and this is the site which helped him move on without her. It is free for a short period of time but you can have this on the internet forever for something like $100. Again, I am sorry for your loss!
2007-12-02 06:13:13 · answer #1 · answered by Al B 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am really sorry about your brother, you were obviously close, its just going to take some time to feel better, you are never going to get over this since you loved him so much, just slowly try to move on, he's still here, in your heart (that may be cheesy but its true) and I'm pretty sure he isn't going to be wanting you to be so depressed like this. And again I'm so sorry, I don't really know what I can say.
2007-12-02 14:09:49 · answer #2 · answered by Celeste 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is always hard to deal with losing the ones most precious to you. My advice is continue to live your life content and do not dread the past. We all have to leave at one point or another. Dealing with grief may take some time. I do not know if you are religious or not, but if you want to cope and deal with this, then try praying to God for him and I am positive he will guide you through. I am sorry for your loss. Hope things get better. =]
2007-12-02 14:08:11 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i am sorry for ur loss. i wish there was something i could do or say to help but there is not anything. i hav never lost anyone like this. i am sure he is looking down now thinking about u , hoping that u can move on and b happy. i think that is what he'd want and what u'd want for him. mayb now he is like ur gaurdian angel.
2007-12-02 14:09:28 · answer #4 · answered by Fairy Gal 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you listen in a quiet place .... you can hear him. Remember his voice, recall the life lessons you learned togeather .... try you can hear what he would have told you .... he will always be with you.....
2007-12-02 14:40:25 · answer #5 · answered by John 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OMG! i am sooooooo sorry! i feel so bad for you! i know how it feels to lose someone that you love. Im sorry. :'''''''((
2007-12-02 14:09:09 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋