It was my birthday night out on Friday and he was all raring to go but then he said he was ill, which I believe, but he said he was sooo ill he couldnt come out to which I said not to worry. Then I found out that he was going out with his new girlfriend for dinner and went for a few drinks after.....i text him yesterday to see how he was to which he said that he was falling asleep at dinner and his gf was nursing him better.....i was so ticked off all I text back was at least you made it to dinner.....what do I do? As I want to tell him I am pissed off but he is the sort of person that runs from confrontation......
2007-12-02 05:59:41 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
He also text me that afternoon, before the night out, when he was saying that he couldnt make it that he and his mate who I dont really know but was going to come out would like to take me for lunch, and then another text saying that he felt really bad after all I had done for them but just couldnt make it.....
2007-12-02 06:07:16 · update #1
why do you think he was frightened to tell you the truth?? this is not a true friend - dump him!
2007-12-02 06:04:25 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should not say anything and then get him on his own asap and then bring it up... not in an angry way, just tell him how upset you are about it.
See what he says.
Depending on what he says you should either forgive and forget OR hold him to the same level of friendship OR write him off as a friend who has you well and truely replaced.
2007-12-02 06:06:32 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
whats up. i understand the way it feels while a chum lied to you approximately something, fairly once you believe that buddy with all your coronary heart. the ingredient is, you need to ask your self WHY did she lied to you approximately her father initially. attempt to confirm no remember if she had subjects together with her father interior the previous, which, ultimately made her withhold her father's life from you understanding. Did she tell everybody approximately her father being ineffective or did she in basic terms enable you to already know? Out of excellent judgment, human beings do merely no longer bypass around telling their buddies that their father/mom have exceeded directly to the total beyond while their father/mom is easily alive and kicking. there is have been given to be a existence like clarification to why they say those issues. (except that individual has some psychological or psychological problems). ideas-set her gently, and if she nevertheless denies, tell her which you already understand the actuality. attempt to no longer press her to enable you to already know the actuality right this moment; provide her area and time she needs to return sparkling with you. convince your buddy that she will talk with you approximately any remember concerning her and her father. i wish you could settle in this concern which incorporate your buddy.
2016-09-30 11:00:18 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
know what babe? dont bother yourself too much as it will only lead to more stress.try to tackle the issue in different ways.try to fined out why he realy lied to you.there might be more to it than you think the is.i can imagine how disapointed you must have been.dont be pissed, just relax and take it as a test,next time you fined yourself in a situ like this you'l know and be more calm.
2007-12-02 09:46:57 · answer #4 · answered by SKY 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Drop the fecker, it's that simple!!!! And when the girlfriend drops him, then tell him to go shove his very strange notion of friendship somewhere where the sun don't shine!
2007-12-02 15:18:40 · answer #5 · answered by Orla C 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont consider how he feels in this situation, he certainly isnt considering your feelings at all.
Tell him that you need to speak to him and tell him straight how you feel by his behaviour.
Real friends should be able to straight talk no matter what it is.
2007-12-02 06:05:29 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell him you are pissedd off and let him deal with it! If he asks you to go out just make excuses and c how he feels about it!?
2007-12-02 06:03:55 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him how you feel if you cant talk to him text him or ring him but if he is lying to you hes not much of a friend anyway
2007-12-02 06:05:52 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should talk to him about it. It isn't right for him to do that to you, he's just a coward and should have told you the truth.
2007-12-02 06:05:29 · answer #9 · answered by Lissa <3 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let him kno how mad u are...
If he is a true friend he will go out of his way to apologize to u...
2007-12-02 06:08:47 · answer #10 · answered by Martin 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋