How can I stand up for myself?

Question

I ve been having this problem and I hope I'd find a solution soon.See,when I have a fight with anyone,I always end up crying and the person in front of me tell me that I am the one who's wrong and most of the time I admit that I am wrong and am the first one to say sorry.But then when I think most of the problems thru I found out that the other person didn't say they are sorry or they admit their mistakes.They always blam me for their mistakes.I am an oversensitive person ,words hurt me badily,I cry easily and I Wish I could answer back when someone tells me a bad word.Wish I could express my point of view on the problem without crying.How can I stand up tall when quarreling with a person and not crying.How can I fight for my right?Some people even laugh at me because I answer a question in a class or when I get higher marks than them.Some of my friends make fun of me 'cause I ask the teachers some questions after the lesson is over because I didn't understand some things about the lesson.How can I stand up for myself?How can I not care about what other people say?How can I solve my problems by myself without other people interfering?How can I change?'Cause I believe that the reason why I am subjected to so many problems is because people take advantage of me because my personality is weak,don't know how to fight for myself and I am afraid if I answered back,my answer would be a bit strong that it will lead to many problems.Can u help me?I am in college by the way and can't believe I still have these problems!!!

Answer 1

I expect that there are *assertiveness training* courses available in your area.
You attend once w eek and with a good leader you'll notice a difference fairly quickly.